then obviously you don't need to be with him! If he's not happy about the baby, but actually has the nerve to say he's disappointed then LET HIM BE. I'm not saying be hateful towards him, just let him be. Don't text/call him. Just focus on you. Show him you don't need him. & you have to actually figure out how to happy without him!! Make that your goal, to find happiness within yourself. Because if you're not happy with yourself, you'll never find the right man. I've been hurt so many times, & I finally found a good man right when I loved being single. I was finally happy with myself. Now I know with or without him I CAN BE HAPPY. & your happiness is all that matters (: Keep your head up, 10 yrs from now you'll look back like eww I was in love with that??? @ashley946

@marie_xo, ever since I found out I was pregnant he has not wanted anything to do with the prengency he says its a disappointed to him.

people now days think is a good and brave thing to leave their partner instead of fight it up. and on top of that recommend to anyone to do the same thing and encourage them to be single moms. why don't people encourage others to work the relationship out? not to leave them like you leave a toy . people don't even know what's their real problem and the first thing they say is "I'd leave him" damn... stop destroying other people's minds. . that's not that easy for anyone. @marie_xo agree with you too

I agree with @astridoll I mean if he's leaving you for somebody else then screw him!! But if he cheated and he's sincerely sorry, make him work for it, but try to work it out. Think about what's best for baby. Are y'all happy together??

everybody here are gonna tell you to leave him only. that's why there is a lot of single mothers and a bunch of kids without daddies. talk to him. fix everything up. couples have to face problems.. not run away from them. anything can be solved. women now days leave their men for anything.. if he's too bad, too good, he cheated? leave him don't try anything no matter if your baby grows up without a father. they are selfish only think about them. or they say Oh I think he won't change I'll leave him. why you didn't think that a few weeks ago before you had a child in your belly who will be affected by that separation . ? people now days don't think before act. think about it hun take your time. see both sides of the coin maybe he makes mistakes but is a good guy and wants to be a great father. all depends of how you feel how much you love him.. 1 mistake is not enough to erase all the good memories you have about a person. maybe he's the worse person ever I don't know him ... but why have you been with him.? let's see both sides good and bad what's heavier.

You can have his child and still let him be apart of his babies life. My boyfriend and I were having a very hard rough patch for about 3 months always figured etc so we agreed he could come to every doctors appt. come over whenever he wanted as long as I was home to feel baby move or help put the crib up etc and when the baby came he could stay at my house to be there for the baby. There are plenty of single mommas out there and their babies father still apart of their lives

I know but I'm having his child I don't want my child to grow up without a dad I had to my whole life an its hard

Id leave him before it's too late. Meaning I would leave him before you get to much more inlove with him. If he cheated already who's to say he won't do it again.? Knowing he's trying toget with his ex makes things even worse. Don't let him play you and be like oh you're my M-Thu an she's my F-Sun.