so i been with my bf since October 2014 we had a tubal pregnancy in January and now im 16 weeks pregnant by him our…

I feel you girl my fiances babymomma said she don't trust her child around me. just babymomma jealousy issues on top of that no one would really like their child calling someone else momma yah know? I hope this helps a little bit.

@ashamalee85,

i have step kids from past relationships and never had this issue

and they are 12 and 7

My boyfriend has a daughter that I've never met too been together for 4 years

they didn't even know we was having a baby

he say he was gonna tell them when left to go to Houston to school

I think considering how long you and your SO have been together, she's definitely being selfish. It's not fair to the father and most importantly to the children. She's letting her own personal issues with you cloud her judgement as a parent. Have you met her personally? Or given her any reason to not trust you. She has to come to terms with the fact your SO is moved on with you and now expecting another child. Therefore your always going to be a part of his life no matter what. I think your SO needs to he straight forward and tell her this. With that being said it doesn't mean your going to try step in and replace her or suggest that their children call you mom. It just means that your trying to support your SO as a father.

ive never meet her

i have my 3 kids and custody of my niece and 2 nephews

none of my step kids call me momma i wont have that

i love kids and it bothers me that he won't stand up to her