Rant...
I went two states away to see my baby's father after he's been nothing but an ass the whole time.. Then the moment he gets up on some money he starts acting selfish toward me after I repeatedly told him I didn't care for his money.. We picked his daughter up and I drove 6 hours to get to his mas house not knowing where it was at all and so I messed up where I was, my key snapped, & all he could do is yell at me.. His ma picked us up 45 mins away from where we were supposed to be and he was like I needed to be stranded at the Denny's my car stopped at. His ma told him no because she's not gonna leave the woman that has her grandbaby in her at no Denny's.. Which I appreciate cuz then I would have been there with no money and not knowing what to do. We went to his mas house and everyone was constantly calling me out my name and calling me retarted for not knowing where to go.. I felt so uncomfortable I called my ma cuz I didn't wanna be in a place where no one wanted me.. Do you think that was wrong?? After she ended up coming my baby's fathers mom was upset cuz she drove to get me and she said if it wasn't for me and his daughter she'd never would have came.. After I got home from that day cuz my mom he's been ignoring me till he needed a ride... Am I wrong to say no to my baby's father?? I feel used because I was messaging him three days in a row ignored at every message but they were all seen and then he finally wants to say what's up and what he's doing wrong and asked me for a ride.... 😩😩😩 I feel bad but at the same time so hurt.
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@abeals04 @nyckolle00 thank you guys and I understand I have to start thinking of my baby's happiness over mine.. And you're both right . Thanks for the feedback I highly appreciate it and happy New Years to you both.
if he's willing to be there for your baby that's different but I would watch how he acts around your baby. Stop doing for him and see if he starts doing for you and your baby. maybe you're just not meant to be with him and that's okay if he's willing to be a man for your child that's good enough
he can be there for your little one with out you always having to go to him if he loves his child he will find a way trust me my dad and mom divorced when I was little and mom made me feel dad wanted nothing to do with me but he still sent birthday gifts and called every birthday and now we are living with him till he moves then we are taking over his house payments so our son has a house
trust me I know it's hard. but he treats you like shit and so does his family. just by reading your post it seems obvious that he doesn't care about you I know that sounds bad and it was very straightforward but think of your baby is this really the man you want teaching your child? is that the type of role model you want? you don't have to just leave him right away but I would definitely tell him what needs to change I would be firm and stand your ground if he doesn't start to improve take your baby and run. idc if anyone says keeping your baby from the dad is wrong there are reasons for every situation and if the baby's father isn't going to teach them good morals respect and all the other good stuff then it's better he's not there.
@nyckolle00, ^^ and yeah I don't want to accept that I feel like it to though.. 😭😭 @abeals04
The only reason why I try to be civil is cuz my dad left me at a young age n I always said if I were to get pregnant I'd want their father there. I really would like to find the strength to leave him but it so hard... I have loved him for the past year half very strong.. So I know I always look over his mistakes and what he says cuz my love for him.. But it's so hard to let someone go after they've impacted your life to the point of you love him. He is childish and I hate that the most about him.. But I can't ever find my voice when it comes to him cuz I think of the good and not the bad.. I understand what you mean by that.. His ma and two of his brothers don't like how he treats me because of everything I do for him.. But they are younger and my baby's father doesn't care to listen to anyone but his own thoughts..
fuck that. you need to get rid of him and fast stop putting yourself through that. he's not a man he's a selfish child and I wouldn't ever have my baby around his family
you as well and remember little one can tell when your upset I listened to a song for my grandfather as I do every year on new years eve and I could feel my son rubbing my tummy from the inside as if to say it will be ok mommy