My husband and I had talked and I made it very clear I hated the idea nothing against the woman but if you want what they are supposed to give you then you can throw that cash at me lol and I'll do it. But of course one night he was out for his birthday I think his 21st and his friends (my sister in law husband) talked him into it and guess what they butt dialed us and we knew they were not at a restaurant anymore so me and my sister in law went and found them and boy was that funny , he knew he was in trouble because to me that's cheating in my eyes so he already knew even though he was seriously drunk. lol well I left his ass there and stayed at my mom's for a week with our 2 kids and guess what he begged and cried for us to come home and doesn't even want to go out anymore (he still goes over friends houses but we have rules like I drop and pick him up if I call he answers and the same for me although I don't go out ever lol) Do what you feel is necessary and stand up for yourself and don't let your feelings and beliefs get run over. Your a beautiful strong independent woman who deserves to be treated that way and you've already been through so much. Good luck

Oh my ex husband wouldn't let me buy magic Mike but he watched porn.

seriously my boyfriend won't even let me watch magic Mike lmao

I've been cheated and abused by my ex husband. So that's always in the back of my head

I just feel like shit right now. Like I know if he didn't want me to be his he wouldn't have asked me but I absolutely don't know how he is when he's drunk and high. It scares me.

yes if my man thinks its ok to look at strippers then he better be ok with me to look at male strippers, just because their guys they think its ok umm noo, most strippers are ugly but still it aint right lol

Exactly. I'm freaking out bc idk what all he did and he's not texting me. I feel like shit right now bc my mind is racing and thinking the worse when he hasn't told me otherwise.

Yeah I don't think that's okay either. I used to be until I went to a strip club myself and saw some of the things that go on. My relationship after that wasn't the same. It isn't fare that we can't have another man's dick in our face of grinding on our parts.

Oh I was okay about him going to his friends but he didn't tell me he's be smoke stuff I don't agree with and the strippers. I have nothing against the strippers but he's not single why would he be okay with looking and touching them.

I understand the going out part of you are pregnant and got kids. but I'm a dancer I look at it did cause I personally don't flirt with the guys only for my cash. there just there to have fun