I hate when people act like people my age (21) are still too young to have a baby. We have been together for 6 years, we own our home, my SO has an awesome job, and I'll be graduating in a few months. What exactly do we need to wait on? I feel awkward even telling people we are TTC though because everyone my age acts like I'm crazy. Some people act like if you don't spend the first half of your twenties partying you're missing out on something. I just don't get it.
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also I've gone one step further outside the lines as I plan to be a single parent by choice
on some of the other apps they say you're too young you have your whole life ahead of you....even after I told them I'll be graduating my medical assisting program this April 2016
@hopeful_mommy I'm 19 and my husbands 20 and were ttc, everyone judges us for it but I am already graduated from college with an awesome job and he is almost finished with college. Age doesn't matter to me, it's maturity and if you feel you're ready that matters
I had my oldest at 21 my hubby and I had been together for 3 years. now I'm 25 and expecting #4 we have a 4 year old a 2 year old and our youngest will be 10 months tomorrow. everyone thinks I'm crazy for having them so close together.
When my husband and I got married, I was 19 and he was 21(together for 2 years before that decision), we got pregnant 6 months after being married and when our son turned a year old we found out we were pregnant again! I'm going to be 22 in 11 days and I have 2 kids! People are always going crazy over that. Who gives a fuuuuuuck lol! Age doesn't make you a better mom.
ignore them some people grow up faster then others do as long as your happy that's all that matters
Dont worry about anbody else. if your ready, your ready. I was 16 with my first, and ill be 18 before this baby comes. People judged at first and now they see, we live on our own, we both have jobs, I work at a college university and have great benefits (health wise, and all of us husband and children have free tuition to go to college here). People sometimes still judge because im pregnant again, but i honestly dont care because financially we are doing great for our age. I just look at it as, i get to love my babies longer :)
I had my 1st at 21 and am now 25 and having my 3rd. if u are ready who cares what others say.
Locking your doors
We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?
some girls should shut the hell up .. they always say if you don't have something nice to say then don't say it ! I hate judgmental people with closed minded views .
I find it pretty hilarious how people who have shown their true colors on social media snake away, delete the posts that outed them and come back on social media like nothing happened. Why do that, you outed yourself, so stay out. We still see you boo boo...
I don't want to be up all night long I am getting pissed off my back killing, hips, and cramping I am having contractions and leaking something and baby daddy acting like a kid!
Hey moms. I have a question. I'm I wrong because I don't want used clothes for my newborn. He is my first child. I Already don't like using people clothes for myself but my husband family got a little offended by it.
thank you for the encouraging comments everyone :) @_mommyoftwo_, @abeals04 @arielmarietalks @happilymarriedmommaoffour @mommabear3cubs @sapphirelevaou @tdean