Soo I have a question. My husband has 3 children from 2 previous relationships and we have our son together. We are currently trying for our 2nd child together my question is do yall think that we should just quit trying and I get back on birth control or just go with it? The only child that lives with us is ours together his 3 live with their mothers and its a battle to even be able to see them. Im just curious cause my family tells me we have enough to deal with and don't need to add to it.



I have 2 children from another relationship, my husband has a son from another relationship and he has custody, and we have a daughter together. but we will be having another baby when the time is right, don't let anybody take you away from what you want. my mother in law always makes comments that we should never have anymore children blah blah blah but I don't listen to it. my kids, my family, my life, my choice! good luck in your decision. (:
His oldest hasn't seen him since she was 2 she doesn't know him at all he financially supports her but other then that they don't have a relationship. His other 2 are kept from him he financially supports them as well and we have tried time after time to be able to see them and have a relationship but their mom just ignores us or picks up and moves.
It's up to you and him. I think it also depends on how often he spends time with the other children. I could give you my personal opinion but it doesn't matter. Follow your heart, just make sure he can emotionally support all of his children and be there for them and that he wants more kids to be responsible for.
We are gonna have another just cause I don't want Eastyn to be my only child. Im only 25 I want more than one child of my own plus I want a little girl :) I just get tored of hearing the snide remarks. Yes we know that will be a total of 5 kids but I don't care we like to have a big family!!