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My SO has always been extremely supportive and loving towards me. So when we found out we were expecting he seemed happy…

My SO has always been extremely supportive and loving towards me. So when we found out we were expecting he seemed happy and I thought he would be an amazing Dad. He goes with me to my appointments but when it comes to talking to our son or feeling him move, he seems distant. Is this normal? Is there anything I can do now to help him bond with our son?

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crowewhit

Whitney CroweМама сына (1 год)

That's common. Some men can't bond until they first lay eyes on their baby. It's different for women because the baby is apart of you and you feel them every second of the day

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bbbbb888

bbbbb888

some men are just like that my husband didn't bond much until I actually gave birth but we are new parents so I expected that to happen

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