I want everyone's opinion...
My fiance and I lost our son Caliber a month ago. He was perfect, but had a heart condition so he didn't make it. We are trying to conceive again, having a family is heavy on our heart and now it's just terribly painful to go on without a child. Is it to soon ? I don't want to feel as if I'm trying to fill my sleeping son's shoes.
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Honestly, you may not feel like it's too soon right now but if you were to get pregnant right away you'd regret it. I miscarried (I know not the same thing but I'll get to my point soon) and thought that I'd want a baby again ASAP. Well when I had a pregnancy scare soon after I realized that I wasn't ready yet. I didn't give myself enough time to mourn the loss of my first baby. I realized that although I'd love to get pregnant again, that I wasn't ok yet. In September my sister's 4 month old was pronounced brain dead after a car accident. She immediately got pregnant again and had to have an abortion due to the pregnancy being in her tubes. When she lost that baby she was filled with a sense of relief. She wasn't ready to let go of her sons memory. She wasn't ready to be happy about a new baby when she was still so torn up about her first love and that's okay. It's more than okay to mourn and be sad. But don't rush yourself, you'll know when you're ready ❤️
I don't think you should worry about what others think. I think you should pray about it and you and your SO should do what you feel is best for you guys and your growing family. I think you know you can never replace your sweet baby no matter how soon you try again or how long you wait. You aren't a bad person for wanting your angel baby. You'll make the right decision.
I lost my son when I was 5 months he was perfectly healthy no issues but we don't know what could have happened but me an my fiance started trying a few weeks after and now I'm about to be 15 weeks it doesn't matter what anyone thinks do what will make you happy @113015angel
It's up 2 u how u deal with ur sons passing is up 2 u & ur husband so it's ur call hun as long as u r healed & have the dr ok go 4 it if ur ready but I wish u the best of luck whatever way u go god bless hun
Everyone is different. What one person feels is right for them, may not be the case for you. My daughter was stillborn at 35 weeks in June, I got pregnant again in September and couldn't be happier. I am scared for this baby but i know I would be no matter how much time went by between pregnancies.