ok so i need advice. I've been wih my husband for 5 years. (married for three) he's really controling (money wise. like i have to ask tk spend money no matter what its for and there was one point where I basically has to hand my check over to him) our relationship matches the signs of emotional abuse to a T. We have talked about this issue many times and nothing has changed. he has a severe lack of emotion and affection. and the relationship, to me, seems dead. and I'm starting to really debate on leaving him. (I've been getting closer every year to leaving) with our first child he was like super dad. and now with oit son, he wants little to do with him. He literally sits there on his phone and doesn't pay attention to either one of the kids now. it's to the point where I won't let him watch them anymore. (yes, that means I don't go anywhere uness I can find a baby sitter) he acts very superior to everybody and always talks down to me. (and everyone else) I firmly believe that marriage counseling will not help....what should I do? I don't work or drive. and I have very little confidence in myself to take care of the kids alone. although I've been basically doing that for a while......
but if your no longer happy then leave if he won't change that should give you even more reason to leave him hive him a warning if things don't change with him being controlling etc that you will leave
You need to find the confidence and get motivated so that you and your children can all be happy. There are lots of jobs for sahm and tons of options out there. Make yourself available to them.
So this has nothing to do with my pregnancy but it's a thought I've been having lately: when I first met my husband I told him I was bisexual but willing to date him as long as my past was never bought up in our relationship.... been married for 4 years now and lately I've been missing a female touch... I don't love him any less in fact I love him more each day but sometimes I miss that intimacy
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
I want honest advice from ladies who've been or are in long term relationships or marriages. I keep hitting the same roadblock with my boyfriend for almost a year now. He constantly wants to know what I am doing or who I am talking to, why I am not responding quick enough and always seems to think I am going to be doing things behind his back to hurt him if he doesn't do all of this. Me making this post will probably even make him mad and think I am just talking about him and looking for reaso...
Make your own breakfast!
At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.
Enterprise and U-haul both have jobs that allow you to stay at home and make inbound and outgoing calls. The care.com has all kinds of jobs for child care or pet care in your home or at theirs. I know you said you don't drive but some people on that site just want you to take their kids to and from school which I've done and is easy pay. There are a few other things I have done but don't know what you guys have available. Feel free to DM me. @bfsahm2015 @mrsmoore