This is my first baby and the hardest thing so far is comming up with a name to name my baby boy, what makes it hard is mine and my boyfriends family always has something negative to say about every name I like and the names they choose seem like there just pulling them out of no where, I want something unique and different, anyways what I'm trying to see is if anyone else is having the same problem with the family trying to pick a name for you.! :/
were keeping the name we have picked for our little man a secret till he is born. its a fun surprise once he's here and we also don't have to listed to peoples opinion. once they are here and already have a name people will look past it and not want to give negative opinions.
Yeah I have a unique name picked and boyfriend likes it too, my baby is a mixed one lol I'm mexican and white and daddy is black and Mexican so I kept telling my self it can't just be a common white, Mexican or black name it has to be diffrent, yeah I have came to the point where I could careless what they think I mean what are they going to love him less due to his name I doubt that but yeah the name I have picked out I haven't told no one only me and his dad knows and we both like it so we will see if the family will be grown adults when he makes his arrival.! :)
Keep the name a secret . Me and my husband have a name we have picked and love and we're not telling anyone until birth . Saves yourself stress and judgment for you. After all it is your baby
I'm going to tell you what my mom and dad told me. We wanted to name our son Nikolai but my parents wanted a Hispanic name. I was dead set on Nikolai being his name and I finally decided that was the name I was chosing. Everyone hated it. I would get ugly faces when I would tell them what I wanted to name him. I ended up just telling people you will see when he's born. I finally got the guts to stand up to my parents and tell them that Nikolai was going to be his name and that was final. My dad told me name him what you want mija no one got into our buisness eww hen we named our kids so why would I try to dictate what you name your son. The funny thing is that we didn't name him Nikolai lol his dad changed his mind the moment he was born. We named him Andrew Nikolai.
thanks ladies for the advice.! :)