just a little rant... my husband and I had to move in with my mom and stepdad after I got extremely sick early in my pregnancy. I wasn't able to work and my husband couldn't afford to pay everything on his own. anyways I am now 37 weeks and could deliver at anytime (since its multiples) and my mother's husband told us we have to be out by may and tries to put my husband down every chance he gets and upset me all the time. I can't stand him and never have been able to! he will only say stuff to us when my mom iant around knowing that if I bring it up to her she will just make excuses for him or not believe he said these things... and if he said stuff in front of her he would be in the dog house. I hate that I can't work... I don't like not being able to afford our own place. I can't wait to have these babies not just to see them and enjoy them but to get away from this house for a few days!!
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Right there with you hun. I found out about my pregnancy at 4 & a half weeks because of the sickness being sooo bad. and Not long after was put on bedrest for a short cervix's so we're stuck where we are too. It's actually caused depression but just try to keep your head up. I know its easier said then done because people tell me all the time too but really just stay with a good mind state cause there's just some things that are beyond our control.
that's exactly how it was for us. these are our first and it just seemed like it was one thing after another once I got sick. my puppy will be okay when my mom is home but since her husband only works a couple days a week he will be the one with her most of the time and it just makes me nervous. guess we will find out... I don't understand why anyone would want to make a difficult time worse instead of trying to help or loom forward to technically his grand daughters coming. I guess j know the answer to that question though.... we have never gotten along in the 25 years him and my mom have been together
Yeah I know how you feel, people treat others so bad not knowing how it really feels expecially being pregnet the little things hurt more than they would not pregnet, this is my first baby and I've been to hell and back from losing my job to losing my apartment to ending up here yeah I know they do alot for us for letting us stay but the extra things they throw at you is not nessasary at all some people don't know how it feels enless they are in the situation you are and poor puppy I would tell your mom to make sure it's okay while you have your babies.!
if it weren't for the babies we wouldn't be in this house. I love my mom but can not stand him! as soon as I get the okay to go back to work I will be and saving every penny that I can to get out of this place! I just don't understand why people are the way they are. the only part of the babies coming that km not looking forward to is leaving my dog for 3-4 days since I'm pretty sure she just gets put in the cage whether anyone is home or not and I hate for that to happen.
I'm in the same boat me and my boyfriend had to move in with his father due to me being so sick and I still get sick till this day, I know the feeling of not being able to say what you wanna say and just dealing with what they say just hang in there things will get better you will be back on your feet in no time, and I heard once the baby is here nothing else matters in that moment just look forward to that.!
@twinmommy_416, I am trying. some days are better than others. if it was just my mom then it wouldn't be a big deal... it's mainly her husband. I should deliver the girls within a week so as soon as o can go back to making money then I will and try to get out of here.