so I'm feeling kinda shitty and feel the need to rant. I've always struggled with body image issues…
so I'm feeling kinda shitty and feel the need to rant. I've always struggled with body image issues and self confidence because I was always made fun of for being fat and ugly and even when I lost tons of weight and changed the way I look I was still made fun of by my dad, people I went to school with, even strangers in public. I finally had a little bit of self confidence i had gotten braces lost more weight and I wore shorts to school one time.. and I was made fun of because my thighs aren't the smallest. I've never been seen as attractive in anyway always the fat girl with the fucked up teeth that could make you laugh. I met my current boyfriend 9 months ago and I had felt decent about myself and when he paid attention to me and called me beautiful it made me feel really good for once because no one ever did that. He couldn't keep his hands off me, but now that I've gained weight during this pregnancy 70 lbs to be exact I've become unattractive to him and its my fault he doesn't wanna have sex with me anymore or that when I am naked around him like after a shower or something he doesn't touch me like he used to or call me beautiful anymore and its my fault like if I would have taken better care of myself then maybe he'd still find me attractive. he was the only sort of self confidence boot I had because for the first time a guy found me attractive and now its gone. I have stretch marks like crazy and I'm fat and I've got quadruple chins. Like why couldn't I have just ate right and not become a fat ass. He doesn't tell me I'm beautiful anymore and its really just all my fault.
Jackie·
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don't feel this way about yourself!!! your not fat! your pregnant! and healthy!! your boyfriend helped make this baby and he should be ashamed of himself for letting you feel like this! we are ALL BEAUTIFUL! I'm our own ways, more than one!!
Kirsten·
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Oh my goodness. first off you do not look like you could possible have "quadruple chins" and you are very pretty!! people gain weight during pregnancy. some more than others. that is one thing that terrifies me also because I am only 12 weeks and I've gained over ten pounds already. I've gained like 25 pounds since I met my boyfriend and I'm so scared he's going to stop being attracted to me. if you don't mind me asking, how much do you weigh and how tall are you? if your boyfriend loves you it will not matter to him.. but after you give birth you can just focus on eating better and losing a little weight if that makes you happy. I have always been very self conscious and unhappy with my body. starting 50 pounds ago I felt overweight and I just have such an obsession with food I can't lose weight. I understand how you feel :/ I'm 5' 9" and I was about 155 a few years ago and felt over weight. now I'm just over 200 lbs and know I'm going to gain more.. it's really upsetting but I can't seem to change my ways :(
Ashley ·
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don't put yourself down it happens your pregnant I have been having body issues and I'm smaller pregnant then I was not pregnant and so try to not think about it I have gained 12 lbs and everytime I see the scale go up I get upset my husband just keeps telling me you need to gain the weight for the baby and remember the baby and fluid and sac is some of the weight you have gained and you'll lose it when baby is out keep your head up and try to breast feed after you have him it will help with weight loss I'm putting myself on a diet after baby and gonna try and do what I can to work out if you want someone to talk to I'm here
CoCo·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (31 нед.)
I know what it feels like, I have been made fun of all my life too. I've gained a lot of weight so far but you have to remember that your hormones make every bad situation seem more horrible than it actually is. Besides, if you've lost weight before, you can certainly do it again. Concentrate on your baby being healthy, your mind being healthy, and make sure your man knows you still live him. He might genuinely not know how to act. I feel super fat now when I was at a decent weight before I was pregnant but hey, it comes with the territory and no one is perfect.
Alyce Curtin·
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Don't put yourself down. You're pregnant and your supposed to gain weight, it's ok. I've always struggled too. I'm only 5'2" and before I got pregnant I had a bit of a belly I could never get rid of and I weighed 160 pounds, now I weigh 190. I'll never forget the day about 4 or 5 years ago when I worked at a daycare, I was feeling confident and I had bought a new dress and I decided to wear it to work and one of the ladies looked at me in it and asked me if I was pregnant... I finally felt confident and that one women made it all crash down and I never wore that dress again, that's not the only time it happened, my cousin asked the same question when I was in 12th grade... My advice to you is to find beauty in yourself any way possible and find beauty in the fact that you are growing and nurturing another human being inside you. It also wouldn't hurt to talk to your boyfriend about how you feel... maybe it's not what you think. Don't let the hormones get the best of you.