k so my night was going okay, now im in a bad mood. boyfriens decides to tell me hes going out with his friends "to get…

@may_mommytobe, I just figure if one person in the relationship is grown then the other needs to follow suit

@mami1212, I agree with you! Put your foot down.. My ex use to smoke a lot and we moved across the stAte together.. I have no problem with weed. But I have a problem with the person I'm with abusing it (just like if they were abusing alcohol or pills) :/ we ended up breaking up shortly after the move because rather then looking for a job all day, he had already found a person to buy from and smoked all damn day !

@xomerimanxo, no problem if you need to talk I'm here

thanks for listening, and the advice i need it @mami1212

you don't trust me you don't I had dealt with alot before I got married to her I love her so we got married that shot she pulled was her last drama filled night because she knows I will walk away... if you're really tired of it walk away but only you know when you have had enough @xomerimanxo

The last time we cleared up all his trouble n warrants he was sitting in jail tellin me he was going to get out work take care of her and I and not even speak to these people. im so done giving him ultimatums, im ready to just throw in the towel. fuck that. those people are such pieces of shit, i hate them all they are menices to society, trash, garbage. @mami1212 i almost wish i didnt help him or he rhere for him when he was in there, and just left his ass alone, its just he does so good for a long time, treats me well, makes sure im okay and taken care of, and then he slips up, &stuff; gets all messed up. its so consistant and inconsistent at the same time, i probably sound so stupid @mami1212

put your foot down and tell him something if he isn't going to grow up then you need to do what's best for you and your baby... my wife pulled some shit the other night and I told her you need to grow up you're married now and have a wife and son you can't be getting into other people's drama because I'd you get into trouble they aren't going to be there and neither am I you will lose everything it registered in her mind

for a second i thought he was growing up . i thought too soon

im so sick of it ugh @babygirlforever

Right there with you, I'll never understand @xomerimanxo