okay, finally have the balls to introduce my self lol... I am a mommy of one and a mother of two...…
okay, finally have the balls to introduce my self lol... I am a mommy of one and a mother of two... I am newly divorced and have full custody of my 8 month old son. I bumped in to a old high school flame and now we have decided to get engaged. two months ago we had a miscarriage and three weeks ago decided we wanted to try to get pregnant. it has been really hard BC I have kidney cancer and being 19 years old with that they don't want me to get pregnant any more... my obgyn is trying to talk me in to getting a hysterectomy BC the last three times I got pregnant I lossed them... I want your opinions about if it is worth trying and working tords or to just be greatful I have my son?? be as strate forward as you can...
Kimberly ·
That's all your decision. You should take into consideration your health and medical history, but it's up to you. You're the one who knows your body. I developed severe preeclampsia and HELLP syndrome (my lover was failing and my blood cells were low.. Some weird stuff- it was awful), and I delivered at 29 weeks. My lil one is 15 weeks old and I haven't done to have my body baby check because I'm scared I'll be advised to not have more children. What I keep in my mind is I have to stay alive for my 2 boys that I already have. I'm sorry you're going through all that. Like I said that's a question only you can answer.
deleted-user·
I'm sorry but if you have cancer don't you have to go through chemotherapy or radiology? If so you can't be pregnant while getting that stuff done right? I would think that would do harm.. but I've never heard of a doctor saying not to try because of having prior miscarriages. I would recommend waiting though if you have cancer.
rgaine·
В ожидании первенца
I would listen to my trusted doctors- especially during/after cancer.
Kristina Dickson·
Мама сына-младенца
thank you! and I have stage two and it is genetic. my dad's mom died of it a year ago and my dads dying of it right now... I did dialysis and nothing more than that. I have had it sence I was 15 years old. kidney cancer is a lot different than every other cancer. they don't put you through chemotherapy or radiation till they have decided that you are at stage 3 and if you're on stage 3 they start you off on chemo medication. so a pill which I went through when I was 17 years old. 6 months later, I went into remission. now they just have me cathing and on a lot of natural remedies... sence it is a genetic cancer the chances of getting rid of it is near impossible... I will agree that what you are saying is smart and I wish I could say I want to wait... but things are not that easy for me.
Bianca·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (19 нед.)
I don't have an opinion on what you should do but so sorry to hear you're going through it and about your family
Kristina Dickson·
Мама сына-младенца
thank you! the sad thing is I have been threw worse