well just found out my sister is having a girl as well so not only do everyone in my family compare…

All will work out sometimes you have to do what you feel is best for your child and your self I wish you the best and congratulations on your pregnancy

thanks I just wish everything wasn't a competition like rhey made me unloved and worthless my entire life because my sister was their favorite even though I'm older I'm the mistake as I have been told multiple times

my borther and sistwr just had boys this month. my fiances brother is having a boy the month beforw we have our son:(

@callumsmommy, I am older than my sister and I am married have been for 2 years we were told 3 years ago I couldn't get pregnant but that I am this should be a great thing to share with my family my in-laws are so happy for us where as my family well my mother was like okay I guess but when my sister annulled she was pregnant she was there for her like I asked my mom to come to every doctor appointment and I got lied too and basically she avoided me but she was at every last one of my sister appointments I try not to let it get to me but it's hard when I'm told I'm a mistake and me having thia baby is wrong while I'm married and my sister isn't they just got engaged on Christmas becuase she pregnant and they helping her plan her wedding but when I was planning mines I got no help so me and my husband went to the courthouse I am just tired of being compared to my sister and everyone saying she better than me it's hurtful but my feeling don't matter to them they never did

Im in your same boat. I am due April 13th with a boy & my boyfriend's brother & his girlfriend are due April 14th with a boy. All of their lives, my boyfriend has been second best to his brother & his brother has been listed as the golden child. I don't like the fact of my son sharing a birthday with his cousin, because when I was younger, I hated sharing a birthday with my cousins & always wanted a day of my own. All of his family is giving their hand me downs to them as opposed to us, which I isn't that big of a deal if they wouldn't have already told us that they were going to give them to us... we told everyone we were pregnant in August & they announced in October, which is probably what really gets under my skin.. It's really hard to even put on a smile and be happy for them when it irritates the heck out of me. If you ever need to vent about this, I know exactly what you're going through! I'm here to chat if you ever need it 😊 keep your head up!

@jessica415, Omg yes like I couldn't have my wedding in 2013 becuase of them but since my sister got engaged they helping her plan her entire wedding my entire life I have been overlook by her the only time I was recognized was in school becuase I was a straight A student who had scholarships at all 8 schools I applied to but that's the only time they tried to claim me