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missing268user

Do OB'S make you get on birth control after your child is born?? I don't want to do that I had a hard enough time…

Do OB'S make you get on birth control after your child is born?? I don't want to do that I had a hard enough time getting pregnant with this one I don't want to make it harder for the next 3:(

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emmy0621

emmy

no one can force you to do anything ! @callumsmommy

katelynn

katelynn

В ожидании первенца

no they can't make u

emmy0621

emmy

I'm not getting on birth control after I have mine, I plan on having more. my boyfriend desrves to have a family and that's what I'm going to give him. @callumsmommy

missing268user

missing268user

@katelynn, @emmy0621 ah thank you:) i wasn't sure if they did or not, I have PCOS so it's hard enough already to concieve I don't need anything making it harder lol

katelynn

katelynn

В ожидании первенца

I have endometriosis and only one tube works but I got lucky to get pregnant in 2 months

nharri22

nharri22

Мама подростков

mine didn't. he asked but I told him no. I don't trust it. I don't like the way it messes with my body. but that's just me.

missing268user

missing268user

I don't want it at all like ever lol. maybe after we are done with our 4 but who's to say we won't want more that's why I'm so against it:/@nharri22

crazymommy04

Nina

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

They can't make you but it is recommend. it allows your body to recover and get back to a somewhat normal state before having another. I got the implant but had to have it removed after 4 months due to bleeding the whole time it was in. When it was taken out my baby was 6m, I was told I was good for a month and to just come back and pick something else. well I got pregnant instantly. Currently 13w with baby #4, my youngest and this baby will be a year apart in age. And it's been hard on my body so far. I also have pcos so I was told it was slim to none having babies. Here I am on #4. The bc actually helped me get pregnant rather then helped me not get pregnant. 3 of my 4 were conceived either on bc or right after stopping. But its your body, your choice, they can only recommend and give their opinion. You always have final say in what you do with your body.

dnhmommy3

robin

Мама троих детей

@nharri22, finally someone who thinks like I do. hubby and family think im crazy for saying that

dnhmommy3

robin

Мама троих детей

@callumsmommy, im 27 with three kids (4,2, newborn) never take a single dose of birth control

missing268user

missing268user

I just don't want it, it did more damage then good for me, we are going to use protection until our first one is atleast 2@crazymommy04

nharri22

nharri22

Мама подростков

@callumsmommy, we want 7 and I'm on #3 and we want them close together. after we have 7 (if my body allows it) and feel complete, my husband is getting snipped. my brother and cousins thinks I'm stupid for not going on birth control but I'm like...I want a ton of kids so unless I have to for medical reasons I'm not going to.

carlisjaxsonsmommy12

Sarah

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (26 нед.)

No you just refuse it. I did with my first. Its your body. your choice.

missing268user

missing268user

@nharri22, yes girl, as long as my fiance and i can take care of them ourselves with no help from the government or using anyone else, I would love 5.I want to be a lawyer and after Callum is born I will return to school. so we should easily be able to do everything for them plus some lol

missing268user

missing268user

omg I would love 7 my fiance would look at me like i was crazy :(@nharri22 and okay I'll just tell them no@carlismommy12

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?