I have a very important question about underage pregnancy, someone help?
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@jjbaize03, sweetie I really don't think you so know. it was so hard for me to finish high school and my family was 100% behind me. at 14 I though me and my sons dad would be together forever but people change after a baby is born. that's why you wanna wait till you and him are 100% feet on the ground prepared. I know I wasn't and I had my mom with me. its out of worry hun we don't mean harm. I just think you really need to rethink your decisions. honest question and I want you to really think. what do you really think will happen when you get pregnant and after you have this baby? honestly, what do you think it will be like and what is your plan, realistically
@kimrsbrry, I asked the same thing. Scary to see someone plan at 14 you have so much life college will be harder finishing highschool will be hard what of you and your man don't work out? when I was 14 I thought mine was forever too but it wasn't not trying to be rude more from a place of. genuine worry for you
I know what is going on and I know what I need to do. I'm making money. Not very much but it's something and we have money saved and he had a pretty good job. And I've been through a lot and I'm ready to stop play around and do something and I'm ready. @kimrabrry
I'm sorry not trying to be rude, but just a question. why in the world would you wanna get pregnant at 14? why not enjoy your youth? I got pregnant at 15 and don't get me wrong I love all my children but I wish I had gotten to enjoy some of the things the other kids my age were doing. there's a lot more responsibility that goes into raising a child that you may not understand yet and you wanna make sure your 100% ready for all of this. at this point you aren't even able to get a job so how do you plan on supporting your child? also you nor your boyfriend are old enough to get your own place so you need to make sure you have a stable home when that baby comes too. Im not trying to be negative I'm just trying to make sure you truly understand what your trying to get yourself into
in the system? sorry.. I am not familiar with that term haha
I've already got my questions answered but if you have an advice for me. I'm 14 and already in the system. mm ommmyof1 @krstokes2016 @javonsmom @mamaof31996
When I was 14 I met a guy who I thought was the love of my life and was with him for 4 years, we even got engaged. I was 17 when we broke up and that really showed me how things aren't always going to go the way you want them to or think they are going to go. I wanted to have a baby with my ex but wasn't actually trying, and I'm so glad I didn't because even at 17 I had no idea what being an adult took and the responsibilities that came with being pregnant. I am now pregnant with my current boyfriends child and I cannot imagine having kids with my ex. I thought I knew everything about being grown and I thought I had my whole life figured out and I was BEYOND wrong. My boyfriend has an amazing job and I currently am not working and we struggle. I also thought I knew how expensive babies were, but I didn't have the slightest clue! No one can stop you from doing what you want obviously but please take the advice from people who don't even know you but genuinely want you to make the best choice for you and the future babies life. So many things are uncertain at 14, and even 18 which is how old I am.