how bad is it if i join a dating website just for the male companionship, i get none from my boyfriend...thinking of…

I mean as a friend sure but a dating site is for dating. If you want a guy friend.. I suggest things like meetme. I met my husband on there but he was my best friend before. It's not really a dating site. You can meet men and women in your area to make friends

im not thinking of a new relationship, i just meant a guy to talk to...@mah_mammi,

Focus on that and getting yourself steady and independent once you have all that done. Then start thinking about a new relationship

Then make it your goal to find a place for you and your daughter.

@mah_mammi, i have no where to go

Girls, if your not happy leave. Real men aren't going to be interested in someone who can't leave their ex. And trust me, if you want your child to see a healthy lifestyle you just have to buck up. Life is not always easy but it is what you make of it. Live the life you want not what others want

I was smarter had goals had opurtunities I went from the suburbs to a ran down trailer park all foe a smooth talker full of bs

yea my boyfriends not the person i thought he was, i ask myself everyday how did i end up with someone like him when i had higher standards and im smarter then that @mizz_madrox

I joined one my boyfriend knows I'm also not interested in him sexually anymore cause he's a different person

i know and i worry so much about that, i don't want my daughter to grow up in am unhealthy environment @mah_mammi

Don't be that girl. Be the strong independent woman who doesn't need a man. Your beautiful and deserve better not only for you and your health but your child's health

Then leave, you sound content. I wish you happiness and peace of mind ✌🏾️💛

also doesnt help that hes ALWAYS talking to other girls

@peaceinfall, i already feel single, he does as he pleases and i just stay home with my daughter all day , only time i leave is with family....sometimes im nt even interested in a relationship with him anymre, ive given him a million chances all the "i promise to make it right" is bullshit coming out of his mouth i cant tell you how many sorrys ive heard and im just tired of being in a relationship but feeling single its not right

@preggerstone, i do everything i can as a girlfriend for him...and i still feel like im getting the short end of the stick, hes either working, at friends or sleeping, he thinks working is enough, he thinks it makes up for the lack of love in our relationship and it doesnt, he isnt a friend or a good boyfriend to me...i let him walk all over me because im too nice and everyone tells me that but thats me an why should i have to turn into some ghetto ratchet person to keep a man or boy if that's the case, really hurts my heart @preggerstone

Don't go behind his back, the breakup could be horrible. Do a pros and cons list, if it's more cons then sit him down and tell him you're leaving him , then do whatever you want

If you tried all you can, leave him. Life is way too short to waste years on a relationship like that. Good luck! Those sites aren't great. But try eharmony! I have two friends who found their husbands l.

i try talking to him but it never last long, only way to keep is attention is negative attention

he honestly doesnt care @queendavis he knows, he ignores it and does his own thing

I wouldn't do it 🙈🙈 I get that your lonely and all but seriously every guy on those sites is just tryna fuck...😁 have you talked to your man about what's going on? Men can be so damn oblivious!