it's weird when your man turns u down for sex... and also because we had sex when I was 1 week pp he hurt my feelings…

awww hey if it makes u feel better I've been waiting to get some from my hubby since September and still waiting on him we can't till may or June lol . I'm a military wife @mumof2

but I was ready tonight lmao :-( oh well I guess I'll let myself tighten up like you said @capri2015

I feel ya girl he's just going to have to wait till your ready and if he really loves you then he will wait with no problems . give it time:) let your goodies tighten up @mumof2

thank god I was single mom because I didn't have to worry being horny with no man lol @capri2015

I had a great midwife thats why... she actually took her time and coached me right... when I gave birth to my son I had another midwife she didn't care so much I ended up with 10 stitches

and when I'm ready to actually have sex he doesn't want to but at first I wasn't ready but I gave in anyway because I live to please him. but what about me??? I want to enjoy myself... @capri2015

dang your lucky lol @mumof2

nope no stitches @capri2015

@mimiz,

awww I'm sorry to hear that but it's okay you'll heel did u get stitches? I did and I couldn't do anything because it hurt so bad @mumof2

ok Im on my second kid so that's why I'm scared my vagina will change..... I could've sworn it changed with my first born. I remember being really tight and wet before I had any kids lol

When they say you'll never be the same they mean laughing coughing and sneezing may never be the same lol that's all vaginas are like elastic they'll stretch but they'll go back

thanks @mimiz I be worrying that I'd never go back to normal because I don't do kegels lol I don't like doing them is there anything else I could do

Aww he will be alright and you'll be back to normal

@valerie_jean,

it just makes me feel bad when he says that but still had no problem cuming so how bad could it have felt?

It takes a while for the vagina to go back to normal. Don't feel bad!