So my step daughter's mother text my husband and said "I hope when that baby comes you don't treat…

its honestly a mothers first instinct... my child was put on the back burner by his father & his family because he had a daughter ... now both of them are being basically shunned bc hes with a NEW chick and shes got a son by him and is pregnant with another... GO HIM for NOT being that guy.... BUT it does happen more often than not..

I honestly don't understand...you can't force a man to be in his child's life, the only thing she can control is the love she give her own child...if my husband and i divorce today or tomorrow you think imma be worried about if he's there for our child or not...all I can do is hope for the best and I love his daughter like my own so I wouldn't have it no other way but to encourage him to make her feel just as special, but of course newborns need a lot more attention...My husband is an exceptional father...I never understood how you just explained it but it makes a lot of sense and I am a whole different breed when it comes to family matters and I got to realize that everyone doesn't think like me. the message itself just bother me @mommy0f03

i understand what your saying .. she had NO REASON to say anything to you guys about that ... she needs to give him & YOU a chance... she of all people should know how stressful having a newborn is... and should be understanding that its gonna take time for her daughter to get used to sharing daddy ... im the same way about family... ive told my sons father since day 1 his relationship with his child is NOT my responsibility... he can either be there 100% or none at all ... he CHOSE none at all

I'm sorry about that @mommy0f03 I just think everything she says is more negative especially when she teased about my baby's twin not making it saying "you don't deserve to be a mother and you don't deserve him, he's a good man...etc" which leaves me to believe that she's jealous and/or want him back...but why bring my unborn up...she like spies on me and hubby or something because we didn't tell her we were expecting...this isn't a competition

That's what I thought to but once his son was born my kids no longer exist and his son is more important...but they have my husband who is a wonderful father to them and they get equal attention no matter what but yea just a mother's instinct it happens sweety just blow it off

okay, maybe I was overreacting, I think it just offended me especially because I know I have a good husband and he's a great father. like I said it's only in my nature to encourage him to include them both in everything but a newborn is definitely needy....I want my son to grow up loving and knowing his sister...so many kids grow up not even knowing about their other siblings...I just don't care for her mother too much @mw1620

Yea ik that feeling it sucks but not much we can do about it