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Due today. Me & babies dad fell out last night. I told him I really don't feel comfortable giving birth in front of him and he flipped his shit and we haven't spoken since. He even left for work this morning without saying bye. What am I going to do? I fully understand him being upset but I can't help how I feel. I already have one child and I know exactly how I felt during the last birth (my sis and mum were my birth partners as my son is from a previous failed relationship). I regretted them being there and wished I had done it alone. I'm a very private and reserved person. I get embarrassed easily and I have major anxiety problems. I've never been that comfortable around my partner as it is, I can't even bare the thought of breast feeding in front of him, let alone giving birth. Although he is physically supportive of me and the baby, he's definitely not emotionally supportive. He's not a bad boyfriend as he's not mean or anything, but on the other hand I never feel important either. And I haven't even been complimented in over a year now. Yesterday during the day I text him saying I was feeling really down as I was so scared and stressed.. He didn't even ask why. I assumed he was too busy at work and would talk when he got home but he just got in and said how tired he was then took a nap then went on his computer... Ahh I just don't know what to do :'(
29.12.2015

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poppins
poppins
@demi2013, Breast feeding thing is because the only time we spoke about it, he made the awful comment of "I'm worried breast feeding will put me off boobs". So that's all I've been thinking about since :/
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demi2013
demi2013
hopefully you come to an agreement. you said you would feel uncomfortable breastfeeding in front of him. you were both intimate to create this beautiful baby and you dont feel comfortable. looks like theres more to the story I hope you can find peace.xx
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daisysmummy
daisysmummy
If he isn't emotionally supportive, doesn't compliment you, make you feel important and if you aren't comfortable around him... that does make him a bad boyfriend :/ I don't wanna judge your relationship or anything but maybe you need to reconsider
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lottiesmam
lottiesmam
I couldn't imagine not having my partner there is did feel embarrassed by the situation Hut I couldn't imagine not letting him be there for the birth of his child so I can understand why he is upset if I was a man I wouldn't want to miss that but if you don't feel comfortable maybe he could be at the hospital and come in as soon ads the baby is born?x
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babylee2016x
babylee2016x
Bless you hun. I think you should go with your instinct and do what feels right for you. I guess I can see his point of being upset if he wants to see his child born but it's your decision as you don't want to be uncomfortable. I need my husband to be with me, I can't imagine anything worse than him not being by my side. I hope you's come to an arrangement that suits you x
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