can you start dilating at 30 wks?..... should I ask the doctor at my next appointment or am I just…

You can have them check for signs of preterm labor etc. Best of luck

thanks! I'm probably just paranoid, but I feel like I'm dilating and I'm having a lot of vaginal pain... @chichimango

@mommasboys, could be lightening crotch??

that's what I was thinking but I can see in there..... and that's not something I normally can do. lol @chichimango

With my first I was 3 cm at 31 weeks. I didn't dilate more until 37 weeks! I won't know if I'm dilated any with this one until Thursday, I'm also almost 31 weeks!

I started dilating 4 days with my first but I was 38 weeks. but this one I'm just carrying him so low and my stress levels have been different, and everything is just so different this child. @lilanne1927

I know how that is! This pregnancy, I'm carrying so low, my anxiety is even worse, it's just a big mess.

same here. and I think the fear and stress of having him early is just adding on top of everything. @lilanne1927