??? y do men change up so bad at the wrong time...I don't know who my ex is rite now...we've been…

??? y do men change up so bad at the wrong time...I don't know who my ex is rite now...we've been broke up 2 months now was together 4yrs n he cheated on me with a 21 yr old whom he lives with now n calls her his girl mind y'all hes 35....he's been with her now for about 3 months the guy I thought I knew wouldn't have even looked at a 21 yr old so I thought....ladies from sept 22 to rite now I'm going thru hell I lost my granny 9/22 lost my 2nd granny 10/10 found out my baby sis has cancer 10/23 n he was cheating he treats me like I'm nothing I feel so lonely I'm so hurt its hard to focus on my pregnancy n I feel bad because I know my child/children should only b on my mind but its hard when your so hurt...I had to find sum type of website to help I know I'm not the only one going thru...smh its crazy I feel like I'm getting catfished by my whole life