I'm writing to everyone that reads this because none of my friends have babies so they can't help me out. My daughter was born August 10 and for maybe the first month her daddy always wanted to be home with me and her. He never ran off on the weekends to be with friends or whatever. He just wanted to spend the time he wasn't working with us. But since then he is no longer like that. Our daughter is now 4 months old and he never seems to be home on the weekends with us anymore. He always finds a way to leave the house and stay away till dark when she will be getting for bed. I'm so stressed out. I don't know what to think or what to do. I just don't understand why he won't spend time with us anymore. He rarely takes care of her. I'm the one that's always feeding her, bathing her, dressing her, and putting her to bed. He helps out but just not as much as I feel like he should. Has anyone else been through this and how do you manage? Please help me. I feel so lost...
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just talk to him. Maybe yall need to do date night if you have someone that can watch the baby for a few hours. he maybe feeling alone being all your time is with the baby. me and my husband went through this and we started doing date night once a month and our little guy stays overnight at his grandparents house
I'm going through the same thing now. I have no idea why they do that and it's so stressful
I would just try to talk to him honestly and let him know, but don't attack him cuz he might just be freaked out with all the change that's gone on...? I also agree with what @princessmommy said :)
I've never been through this but I would talk to him about it & how you feel.. Maybe he's struggling with the fact that he is now a daddy too & its hard on him..? Just talk to him & he should understand.. I wish you the best!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know
the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page
Thank you everyone I will definitely try talking to him if he will sit down and talk with me. and I will for sure try the date night once a night. @m_naquin1988