I'm writing to everyone that reads this because none of my friends have babies so they can't help me out. My daughter was born August 10 and for maybe the first month her daddy always wanted to be home with me and her. He never ran off on the weekends to be with friends or whatever. He just wanted to spend the time he wasn't working with us. But since then he is no longer like that. Our daughter is now 4 months old and he never seems to be home on the weekends with us anymore. He always finds a way to leave the house and stay away till dark when she will be getting for bed. I'm so stressed out. I don't know what to think or what to do. I just don't understand why he won't spend time with us anymore. He rarely takes care of her. I'm the one that's always feeding her, bathing her, dressing her, and putting her to bed. He helps out but just not as much as I feel like he should. Has anyone else been through this and how do you manage? Please help me. I feel so lost...