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Rebecca Boyer
rebeccaa_tokiko
Rebecca Boyer·Мама дочки (10 лет)
I'm writing to everyone that reads this because none of my friends have babies so they can't help me out. My daughter was born August 10 and for maybe the first month her daddy always wanted to be home with me and her. He never ran off on the weekends to be with friends or whatever. He just wanted to spend the time he wasn't working with us. But since then he is no longer like that. Our daughter is now 4 months old and he never seems to be home on the weekends with us anymore. He always finds a way to leave the house and stay away till dark when she will be getting for bed. I'm so stressed out. I don't know what to think or what to do. I just don't understand why he won't spend time with us anymore. He rarely takes care of her. I'm the one that's always feeding her, bathing her, dressing her, and putting her to bed. He helps out but just not as much as I feel like he should. Has anyone else been through this and how do you manage? Please help me. I feel so lost...
29.12.2015

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rebeccaa_tokiko
Rebecca Boyer·Мама дочки (10 лет)
Thank you everyone I will definitely try talking to him if he will sit down and talk with me. and I will for sure try the date night once a night. @m_naquin1988
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nathansmommy
Megan Naquin·Мама сына (10 лет)
just talk to him. Maybe yall need to do date night if you have someone that can watch the baby for a few hours. he maybe feeling alone being all your time is with the baby. me and my husband went through this and we started doing date night once a month and our little guy stays overnight at his grandparents house
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arrysmommy_15
Kentriea Doss·Мама дочки (9 лет)
I'm going through the same thing now. I have no idea why they do that and it's so stressful
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katrinacurry
Katrina Curry·Мама дочки (9 лет)
I would just try to talk to him honestly and let him know, but don't attack him cuz he might just be freaked out with all the change that's gone on...? I also agree with what @princessmommy said :)
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princessmommy
Alexis·Мама сына (10 лет)
I've never been through this but I would talk to him about it & how you feel.. Maybe he's struggling with the fact that he is now a daddy too & its hard on him..? Just talk to him & he should understand.. I wish you the best!
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