So today my mother informs me that when my son is born she wants to stay at my house the first couple of nights to help out but this is my first child and that first night home with him is something special and I don't really want her here for that. how do I tell her this?
This is gonna be my first, but I want 2. :)
FTM problems... So I've made it pretty clear that I want to buy my daughter her fist Halloween costume. Her babysitter/nanny keeps saying she wanted to make her one. I told her yesterday that I wanted to find her something that my SO and I could dress up as a family. So I told her I am going to get it. She just text me and said 'not trying to step on your toes but I bought her two costumes'. She does this all the time. Anytime I want to do the "first" things with her she immediately does it. It's making me sad. Like I wish I could quit my job and be home with her.
Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
I just absolutely love some women on here! Some woman wants to write on another women's post telling her she shouldn't be having sex at all in the beginning of pregnancy. I didn't know she was her doctor. Then she wants to tell me that the first trimester is only 1-9 weeks pregnant. And she lost her baby at 4 weeks pregnant due to sex. Like sweetie that's your period starting!
b4mandi·
Мама четверых детей
you may want her there! make her a to do list and keep her busy it may go easier!
LeAnna·
В ожидании первенца
@babiio1 @mommypriscilla2015 @nharri22 @mom13 @bri28 thank you everyone
Takira·
Мама сына (9 лет), беременна (33 нед.)
say thanks so much but i want to tough it out... but dont complain bc then she will have a i told you so hanging over your head. good luck
nharri22·
Мама подростков
just tell her that you wanna do it on your own and if you change your mind you'll call her.
Priscilla·
Мама сына-младенца
I agree with @bri28 you would really want her there you would want all the help you can get I have my mom and my family's help it's the best thing in my experience it really dose take a Village to raise a child. You can tell her to be out your house but don't be to pushy on stuff let you do your thing and be there when you really need the help
LeAnna·
В ожидании первенца
@bri28 my mother gets on my nerves I don't think she would be much help. she wasn't the best parent growing up and then she sits there and tries to give me parenting advice.
Kimberly·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (29 нед.)
Be honest
Sabrina·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (38 нед.)
From my personal experience, you will want her there! My mom was here when my first was born and it helped so much. I didn't have to worry about cleaning or cooking, she did all that. But it's totally up to you and I would be straight forward with her