When people judge or jump all over someone because they want to get their tubes tied. 😐

my parents think I should get my tubes tied cause this will be my 2nd child and they think it's wise to not have any more

@candice_leann, I'm on my second and that's plenty for me. Two is perfect, I'm going to be 24 which is why people tell me not to. It's not that I won't want more later on.. I might but it's not financially smart for my family. If you don't think you should then don't! (:

My husband and I believe it would be wise to get my tubes tide, but my Dr is tryin to refuse to do cause I'm only 24. This is my 2nd as well which I'm satisfied with.

@mylovesmy2, I haven't talked to my new doctor about it. My first doctor told me to go on a IUD for 10 years. But if you no what you want, it's your body at the end of the day. No one could tell me what's best for my family.

ppl always have a opinions if they disagree with your views. I will be getting my tubes tied after we decide to have a second child. I've caught so much shit from ppl everyone telling me I should made my hubby get snipped I asked him if he wanted to do that he said no and I'm not forcing him to change his mind but personally I want my tubes tied cause I think 2 kids is plenty

@wyatts_mommy_0106, that's the same with us. My husband said no. Plus I told him if he had more kids with someone else GOOOODLUCK! 😂 (I no he would never cheat).

@stephhhx3, yes that's how I feel. I really don't want any BC too many risk and it make you gain weight.

lol yeah same here that's what i told my hubby. but he said the recovery process for him to heal is worse than a women when she gets her tubes tied ( a bunch of his friends got snipped) plus its just easier for me to tell the Dr I want them tied after I deliver

They offered to me to have my tubes tied after I give birth. But I'm 27 and on my second(6 year gap) At first I was all for it, but idk now.

To be honest, there are other precautions to take that are less permanent. It's more that things like finances, or just that another would be a lot, can change in the future. My sister-in-law had two children a year apart and her and my brother made the decision to get her tubes tied and not have any more children. I told her that I personally thought she would regret it and that she should think about other options but ultimately, I supported them in whatever they wanted to do. She got them tied, and now their youngest is 1 years old and they are both really regretting it and have decided when the time is right to find a way to have another. At the end of the day, it is your body and it is yours and your partners choice. Those who give you a hard time most likely just want you to be aware of your choice and know that it isn't something to make hastily. If it is said in any other form but concern, then they are wrong to do so. It's nobody's choice or business what you decide and if someone tells you their concerns out of care that's one thing, but judgment is entirely uncalled for. Good luck! :)

@lyricsmommy15, I understand 100%. I do no all my options. This happens to be the best one for me and my family. It's deff not for everything. Some people regret & some don't even think twice about it. It's deff not something to think lightly about.

@stephhhx3, So then don't worry about what others say. Only you and your family can know what's best. :)