is it possible for the men to have post pardom depression? My daughter is almost 5 months old and my husband doesn't have much to do with her. When he holds her she screams. It's causing my husband and I to have problems what should I do to get him to have more to do with our daughter?
I am with @queendavis, one thing is if he feels left out or rejected by the baby, another thing is if he yells and curses at her. That's why she probably doesn't like him, because she doesn't feel saved and loved and probably feels threaten
Steph 💋Мама двоих (младенец)
Also you can't make him want to spend time with your daughter and be more involved. If he doesn't want to, then it will be unpleasant for everyone when he does. If he doesn't want to spend time with his own child then I really don't know what to tell you. Sounds like his priorities are fucked up.
EmilyМама сына-младенца
Hmm that can be very stressful. I say you tell him he needs to talk to you or someone as to why he's acting like this or his daughter will want nothing to do with him like how she will be shy every time he says hi or hugs her. That's a hard situation I'm sorry
Steph 💋Мама двоих (младенец)
Men cannot have PPD. My husband wouldn't be holding our kids if he yelled and cussed at them, shit he might not even be in the picture if he acted like that, they are babies for Christ sake and that is completely unacceptable. Sounds like he's an asshole and needs a reality check.
EmilyМама сына-младенца
He could just be nervous depending on how over bearing you are because I tend to be so I try not to
EmilyМама сына-младенца
What do you do when she starts crying? I have learned to walk away and let my husband figure it out. He use to get mad at me because I kept telling him what to do with him so I try to let him handle our son until he asks for help. Maybe go away for an hour like grocery store run and have him with her and see how it goes. He can always call
I need to ask someone this have you literally regret having a child with someone. I love my daughter with all my heart but I really regret ever being with her dad.
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
IF WHEN I HAVE MY BABY I DONT WANT MY BD OR HIS FAMILY TO EVER C HER WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO???
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...
Sydney Ochoa·Мама двоих (младенец)
I think it's possible, i don't think it would exactly be post partem but SOMETHING lol. Becoming a parent is stressful, maybe ask him what he's feeling? Find out if he may be scared of something. it is so very common for men to be scared about hurting baby on accident. Maybe he just doesn't know how to help out?
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