are you serious. ooh wow that is so ridiculous. I'm so sorry to hear all of this @babygirlforever

Wait get this, I talked to his mom and asked that they start helping out money wise since my parents and I have been paying for everything (appts, blood work, hospitalizations, clothes, furniture, etc) and she called me crazy and said this was my problem not hers or her sons! What psycho says that?! Yet they think the baby will be living with them, 40 minutes away from me, in a smoking household that has marijuana constantly in it, when my house is smoke & drug free haha such a joke! @nikki84

girl I know the feeling he goes to some of our baby appts, I'll be in pain, sick or tired and I'm still a Cinderella mama. I've tried talking to him and even came down to talking to his mother about it and yet still doesn't help nor matter

I've tried talking to him and he gets so angry at me saying I'm always degrading him and I don't have any confidence in him and honestly I can't really say much back to that because he's proving to me that I should have my doubts considering he's only been to one appointment and it was the anatomy scan at 20 weeks, and that was the first time he's seen his son and heard his heartbeat even though I've already had 4 other ultrasounds because I'm high risk. So annoying 😒 @jasmine137 @nikki84

just make sure he know how much you need his help and support on this and hope he comes around

smdh I'm in same boat beside him supposed to be a step dad as well. 3yrs almost 4 of same shit now he has one on the way in about 2-3months and it's like talking to a wall. so annoying and stressful

I'm in the same position you were once in, literally spot on. Hopefully he'll come around and come to his senses, for his sons sake at the least 🙌🏻 @jasmine137

my bf went out all the time with his friends and his excuse use to be its his last chance to be free before he has a baby but the second our daughter was born he cried like a baby and now hes like a completely new man did a complete turn around. just hope for the best and if he cant put his kid first after seeing how precious your son is then you have to sit him down and tell him he needs to man up and take responsibility for the precious life he put into the world. but dad's aren't really all clingy to their children until your baby starts to learn how to crawl and all that cus to them watching a baby just sleep sit and poop is boring to them @babygirlforever

my children's father said when he get off work he taking the boys to park so I can get some quiet. I'm the type like um no the older boys don't bother me come give me a break from the new born hahaha like jeesh :-(

yup I hear that :-)

I'm fine with him being laid back and not knowing what to do in the beginning, but he's not just gonna be present when things are good & dandy. If I'm taking care of my son on my own, then I'm doing it on my own..not half assed effort. @mumof2

I really hope so because my boyfriend is the same way, does what he wants when he wants. Would rather hang out with his friends than his pregnant girlfriend. I'm just really hoping he comes around because I want nothing more than for my son to have his dad present in his life, but only if he'll do more good than bad for my son. @jasmine137

usually men are laid back when the baby is first born lol like moms do everything

once he sees his baby he'll probably change my bf was so distant when i was pregnant with my daughter and now hes dad of the year and would kill for our little girl