So my Babdydaddy hit me up after 9 months of being MIA. He wants to know what hospital ill be giving birth so he can tell his family. Though I made it VERY clear that I dont wamt them there, that he needs to come alone or not show up at all. Never told him the hospital and now im seriously considering giving him the name of the WRONG hospital just to piss him off....
When I go in to deliver they are having a security guard outside my door at all times due to my biological father harassing me constantly and me not wanting him nowhere near my daughter due to his background. My doctor has it to where nurses cannot say anything about me or my child unless they are in a private room and have to clear visitors with me.
hes not that smart. He lives 3 hours away amd doesnt know the area. plus none of my family likes him so no one will tell him @mommabear3cubs
you should tell him again you don't want his family there.... plus its not like they can come in if you don't give permission. even if he his a pos dad I would let him see the birth of his baby but that's just me... that's a life changing event no one should miss
if he does end up figuring it out u can tell the hospital the names of the ONLY people u will allow to see u and baby. usually mother baby unit is locked down.
Tell him that you don't want his family there . As far as him ... Let him be there for the birth of his child as well . Regardless of what he did .