Hmmm. Empathy is a skill that I've developed in 2015 - my "I don't care" nature started to shed slowly. I am still learning to lean on my significant other and be less independent (head strong to the max) - to think "we" instead of "me".
People can be so annoying! Glad you're in a better place xoxo @babyanakin
@ez, you're welcome! CONGRATS on your journey. God does all things well, and you're proof. 😍
@never2late, thanks for the encouragement 🙂 and yes I'm learning to let it be! 🙌🏾
@peaceinfall, I have to practice that DAILY with my hubby. Gods not through with us yet 🙈
@mimiz I was just sharing with another mom something similar!!! I was saying I've been trying to force connections with people friends, family and haven't gotten that in return. Time for me to focus on who's making an effort and appreciate them! Yes to US first!!! 😊😍
@taylor86, I met a man who is now my baby's father and he treats me well! At times i wish it was the other guy ya know... But things happen for a reason. I love my man who I am now with, and I'm confident enough to say God healed me by putting me in the position I am now, a soon to be mommy :D and thank u! Stay awesome 😃
@taylor86, honestly it's refreshing.. Only the good ones stuck around.. They basically did all the hard work for me..I say thank you to them. You too will be better for it I promise :)
@ez, wow!!!! Thanks for sharing your story with me!!! An eye opener for sure! I pray you get that opportunity again! But in the right time. You're amazing 😘
@taylor86, o I have girl. Lost all my so called friends
@never2late, I couldn't agree more! I've been trying so hard. And realized I can't force people to be in my life. Learning to accept it.
Oh no! Definitely know your worth 😉 they don't deserve you or your time! @babyanakin
Me first I care to much about people and they don't about me
My biggest lesson was to stop being selfish... And give it all a try... I was dating a man who really liked me, he would compliment me, take me out, he let me meet his kids. He was such a great guy!!!!! I knew he wanted to be with me but I was so scared of getting into another relationship because of past problems that I didn't give him a chance until 4 months later... Well the day we made it official, 2 days later he passed away :( it broke my heart knowing I won't get another man like that in my life but I am so happy he was apart of my life and that he made me realize that I CAN be loved and appreciated and showed off. I miss him everyday.
My circle for the first time in my life has gotten smaller and I'm so ok with it. ❤️
not to help people anymore... all people in this town use you and back stab you.
Agree! Never lower your standard. For friends, family etc. @cialynn03
Not to settle for less and fuck people's feelings
I think I pretend to not care way too much, when I do! So faking it only caused more stress for me lol. So I'm learning to embrace my more sensitive side so to speak! Yes, I definitely need my SO and I can be very independent at times, well most times! But I'm learning during this pregnancy more importantly I need him more than I ever have! Thanks for sharing xo @8yearsapart