My MIL hasn't been here at all my whole pregnancy, but now that I'm close to giving birth she wants to demand to be…

@lillady, lol thank you! yes I wouldn't do that and all that drama, that's my kids family either way my kids have the right to be with them as long as its not me lol

@bets, Oh OK lol yeah I feel you I just didn't want you to deal with that people get crazy lol

@lillady, oh no I mean the hospital stay. I've never kept my son from them I won't keep my daughter neither . after the hospital that's a diff story. I just want peace and calm those days. the dad is my husband were not seperates if things get better I hope. we live in a home together so she'll see her regardless. I only asked to respect my decision form the hospital.

@bets, when the baby come home

@bets, em not talking bout the hospital yeah if u don't want her der ain't nothing she can do I was talkn bout if you don't let her see the baby she might try to take you to court

@lillady, I don't think she can do that to be at the hospital, I know the mom picks and chooses who's there. my friend restricted her own baby's father from being there at the hospital stay and birth and she got her right.

@ashley_abby20, I tried over and over and over. even today. but he's not reacting.

@lillady, I'm not keeping the baby from her at all I wouldn't do that. I'm just restricting her from being at the hospital.

@lillady, but how if I'll be in the hospital?

@ashley_abby20, she's always been like that with both I and her other daughter in law. her other daughter in law didn't let her in neither. it's her ways that we push her away. I'm not keeping my baby from her at all, I would never do that. I told her just my hospital stay I want peace and calm with no one there what'll cause stress.

@bets, they can take u to court and they will get a blood test on the baby and the dad

@lillady, as far as I knew, anything that could affect the birth or stress the mother, wouldn't be accepted. well by everything I looked into.

why your MIL acting like that with you for

@lillady, to go in to the hospital? I thought it was in my right? even if she has no proof she's the grandma. I mean no DNA not saying she's not but how would she do that?

you should try an talk with your man tell him you feeling pain so hed come see you then you can grab him an tell him everything uu feeling you kno

@bets, I hope it get better for you just keep in mind she can be smart and get grandparents rights

@ashley_abby20, I know as long as my babygirl got me, she's happy and I am too.

@ashley_abby20, I might be admitted tomorrow, and he knows it and he's out drinking and just got in a huge argument with me. and how he's not coming home etc etc so that's his loss. his decision.

@ashley_abby20, my only family here is.my sister, she's been supportive all the way. so I'm positive I want her there.

@ashley_abby20, no trust me I won't. my mom lives in Mexico she can't be there what so ever. and my mil hadn't needed her my whole pregnancy and when I did she wouldn't care and ignore it so I'm good now.

@_akgirl, yes, when I've needed her she ignored me. so why now? be there or don't be at all at your own convenience. I have a list of who is allowed in first and last name.

its important for your baby daddy to be there just make a good decision because. you dont wanna regret it later on u know

yeah i feel you but why u dont want her there? maybe later on will you want her there or your mom ?

you can even tell your nurses once you're in the hospital that you don't want her there and they'll kick her out

definitely!