does anyone else get irked when your mother in law cleans up your room when you already told her no thank you? like told…

does anyone else get irked when your mother in law cleans up your room when you already told her no thank you? like told her no thank you I'm waiting on Bam (my fiancé ) to help me and you leave the house to come back to your room all cleaned up after you said no. I mean thank you that was very nice but I like to have my own personal space in MY own home. me and my fiancé pay the bills and our name are on the lease. so I'm kind of irked as to why she would do it anywayz after I said no...