So my boyfriend couldn't be less supportive. He won't have sex with me, won't touch me, won't do anything for me, Talks shit about me to his friends and I guess I just found out his mom told him he should leave me and try to get custody once the baby is born. I'm so hurt and confused on what I did to deserve this. I need some advice. We were applying for apartments but now I'm wondering if I should just leave him with his parents and find something on my own.. I don't want to do this alone and I love him so much but I'm starting to think what we had is gone :(
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No he's not abusive but he just doesn't respect me. Calls me names to his friends and talks bad about me behind my back... It's just hurtful. He said we fight so much so if he has to break up with me he's going to do what is best for our daughter... It's not all my fault I just hate how he treats me and can't help but say something. @maeesann
im not the one to encourage breaking up as well, anything is fixable but both have to be willing to fix the problems ive been with my bf for 6 yrs and after people putting bugs in our ears saying it wouldnt work from day one it has. it hasnt been easy but you can get thru anything. does he hit u tho?
He might just be acting that way because of the pregnancy. Hormones!!! Lol! Talk to him about counseling,maybe get his moms help to talk to him about it. I've found Mil are a great asset to have on your side 😏
I would love to do counseling but he can't have a serious conversation so that we can discuss our issues and try to sort things out... He's never going to grow up. It makes me really sad because I thought we were going to end up together married and happy but he doesn't act like he loves Me he doesn't respect me like he did before. There is no respect. @halsey11
I'm never one to encourage splitting up a family, with that being said... Maybe you two should seek some type of couples counseling. I've been with my husband for 5 years and I promise you it has not been easy and there have been times when we both just wanted to throw our hands up and quit. But we didn't. We are married, have four kids and one on the way. They deserve for us to give it the best we can. Good luck!! @connercait
I feel sick. If my mom knew all of this was going on she would be so upset and I know she would get me out as soon as possible... I thought he was going to be okay and would grow up but I know he doesn't care
sounds like hes guilty of something or his mom is putting bugs in his ear smh. im so sorry momma! i hope ur ok
I would leave him he sounds like a jerk
leave his sorry ass. then u can get child support from him if u want. I have thought about leaving mine bc the way he act towards me
sounds like a piece of shit, id leave now!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
Ok so there's this girl that won't leave my man alone... She's a crazy ex and I want to know what I should do.... It's like she does thing purposely to taunt me and I can't beat her ass bcuz I'm pregnant... No matter what he does our says to her she won't stop.... This is her...I swear y'all it's taking everything in me not to get her beat tf up!!?
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
ask him if he loves u and is willing to fix things. idk how long yall been together but me and my boyfriend always saw it as we been together for 6 years now we give our worries to god i turned my life to god instead of pushing my bf away i started doing dope he flipped asked me to pls stop thats when i started going to church got right with god got baptized and concieved the day i was re born god nor my bf never gave up on me even in my darkest moments. he might have problems within himself that doesnt make it right but if you love him and he loves u and u and baby arent in danger i say dont give up on him in his darkest because he will hopefully come around im a very understanding person him acting like that may be some insecurities within himself i am not saying he doesnt need to be held accountable for his actions and his disrespect. are u having a little girl? he needs to understand a man could treat his babygirl that way and would he like it?? no. just dont give up if u feel like this is ur soulmate leave it to god he will tell u if yall are meant to be dont stress love:)