It's only weed it shouldn't really affect the way he acts... If it does than there's a problem I guess. But you did get involved with a weed smoker in the first place... Soo can't be too mad at him.

give him time. im sure its really stressful right now for him. things will change when he sees the baby.

I wouldn't be involved with someone who smokes weed period....just me tho.

I'm the same way my fiancé use to smoke weed before we got together and he had to stop to be with me because I don't want to see him fail in life I love him to be successful! Now he no longer even dips tobacco because he don't want it around our baby and neither do I. I love the respect he how's towards our baby who is growing in my belly!😊

The reason relationships can be hard is if you try to change someone. I agree with you totally on what you want but that must not be him. I guess what I'm trying to say is that you are dating someone who likes to smoke weed and trying to change that will create problems. I have a cigarette smoker and we've talked about him quitting many times but if I ever push it he gets mad and pushes away. I guess express your concern and let him care enough to quit or cut back. Telling him he can't or creating tension will not work. It sucks but I know how it is.

lots of people that want to be around my baby smoke. I told them they will not smoke or be around my baby while they are high. some of them understood, some of them got mad but got over it. No feelings of guilt what so ever because i feel like im protecting my baby. c:

it's not wrong of you. it's a bad habit. especially if you don't want it around your child.

and another thing when you have years with no responsibility and all you do is smoke everyday it has to be hard to just quit or try and cut back.... I was never a smoker to where I need it. because I'm too busy raising my kids..... it shouldn't be a every day type of thing

Going through the same exact thing.

@preggerstone, he hasn't been smoking for months because it bothers me. All of a sudden I don't let him do anything he wants and he's unhappy.

No I like to smoke myself but my hubby takes it over board and it makes me upset. Im like you should be sober with our new born finally here. getting high sometimes is OK. just be responsible

I'm going through the same thing . I don't know what to do or how to get him to quit , I've tried talking to him about it but it hasn't done anything , let me know what works cause I need some advice as well

Has he always done this? Did you talk about cutting back when you have kids? I think what you want is completely reasonable but if you never made it a point to discuss it before, you are sorta stuck. You should talk about with him.