I finally talked to my boyfriend about yesterday. He says that he hates my family, & he will never…
I finally talked to my boyfriend about yesterday. He says that he hates my family, & he will never go over there again. I went off to our room crying bc it hurts me so bad. It seems like ever since we moved in together, we see his family constantly, but on christmas, i dont even get to spend an hour with my family. Then he gets on the phone with his dad & i can hear them talking & its like hes making plans for US to go back to his dads to work on his truck when hes off Tuesday. & his dad is asking all kinds of stuff about the baby shower like he would want us to come see him since we are in the area. HELL NAH BITCH. his dad is the #1 reason we were late leaving his grandmas yesterday. & if my SO doesnt want to see my family then ill be damned if i be his purse dog & come with him to see his. If he wants me or Annabelle visiting with his family hell grow some balls & deal with mine. 👏🏻👏🏻
Sorry for the long rants. Im SO fed up right now. I shouldnt have to deal with this bullshit & selfishness being 9 months pregnant. 🖕🏻
missing268user·
your completely right mine was the same way with me @annabellemaesmommy
samantha·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (18 нед.)
i have an 18 month old and a baby on the way with my SO and he was EXACTLY the same this year. last year was fine we went and saw my family and it was no big deal and he flipped balls when i asked him if our daughter and i could go make cookies one day. told me i had to be home by 5 even though it was already 3 and my parents live half an hour away. then got mad cuz i didnt wanna leave my moms earlier than he originally planned. i live with his mom and his sister brother n law and their daughter and baby in the way. not like he misses them. hes just selfish this year
Whitney·
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@callumsmommy, i just hope things change before the baby gets here. She should have both her parents with her no matter what family were visiting.
missing268user·
mine changed but it took me seeing both sides also, my SO family isnt as i would like to think worthy of my child but mine was, maybe thats how he feels but talk to him and ju st let him know look it isn't fair if yours will be involved mine will too @annabellemaesmommy
Whitney·
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@sophiasmum, men suck sometimes. Idk if he has it in his mind he can take her to his familys without me but that shit aint happening & like i said, i wont go to his familys if he wont go to mine! So he better straighten up his shit & i hope your hubby does too!!
missing268user·
she will need both of yall:)
Whitney·
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@callumsmommy, exactly. He makes it seem like bc his grandma is throwing me a second baby shower that that makes her the first priority? Like uh no. I appreciate it, but my mom, dad & grandparents gave us ALL the furniture we have in our apartment. I dont think he realizes that without my family we wouldnt have half the shit we do.
missing268user·
yeah sounds like he really needs a reality check on.the situation a baby shower is a big deal but not a first priority especially a second one. have tyou tried talking to him??@annabellemaesmommy
Whitney·
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@callumsmommy, not yet bc im too mad, there will be no talking just me yelling at him.
missing268user·
wait until you calm down and.can talk lol. I tried yelling with mine didn't work we almost broke up and it's not worth it I promise. you guys are family @annabellemaesmommy
Whitney·
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@callumsmommy, i plan to, thank you for talking :)