So disappointed in my fiancé, I went shopping with my step mom today, and I accidentally took his phone instead of mine, (we have the exact same phone and both of our backgrounds are the same picture of our son, confusing I know) anyway, I was going through his list of open conversations to find his conversation with me so I could text my phone and let him know about the mistake, when I came across 2 conversations with the same name. Turns out he changed a woman's name in his phone to one of his best friends names (first and last) and while I was in labour he was texting this woman very intimate details about my labour and then going on about how in such a f**king push over because I wanted to continue trying for a natural birth instead of opting for a csection after only one failed cervidil. Then when I had to go in for my emergency csection and they put me under he sent this woman a picture of our son before I even got to meet him. I know this doesn't seem that bad but it still upsets me :(
Oh god. I would be devastated. The fact that he is hiding her name and that they talk is wrong in itself, but him discussing your labour with her is just plain weird. To me, labour is a really personal thing and you don't even know who it is. Not to mention he was putting you down to this woman. I know this post is a week old but I hope you have managed to talk to him about it & get some answers. Stay strong ♡