what if I don't have a bathtub?! heehee! thanks for the laugh!

take a bath and calm down :) cramping is normal just make sure there's no blood baby is growing

@ivellise78, baby adapts to stress until 20 weeks your fine:)

@jaxonsmom123, I completely agree with you. I moved out of my boyfriend's house in September when I hit the half way mark in my pregnancy because we were fighting so much and it got overwhelming. My best advice to you would be try and relax. Shop for some baby stuff and keep yourself occupied. You'll feel better and eventually feel ready to talk to him. A baby changes a lot between people and sometimes it can be overwhelming. You'd be surprised. Give it time and hopefully things work out. If you ever need someone to talk to feel free to message me.

I am a little crampy. that is why I'm concerned. but I have been on and off for a few days now.

well this is my 3rd baby. first with him. I have a 19yo and a soon to be 12yo. .I know I must be insane, but I am only 37. and you are right. breathe in. breathe out.

bae just pray I had to last night

So sorry you are going thru this. As hard as it is try and breathe. These early weeks are super important and you are growing a little miracle and no man is worth jeopardizing that. Take a few days and try to talk things out but you are a soon to be mommy and stronger than you think