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Precious
Precious
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Okay ladies, does it make me seem like a horrible person if I resent my bf's child every time he…

Okay ladies, does it make me seem like a horrible person if I resent my bf's child every time he gets him? Reasons are because when he does stay I have to sleep on the couch or on the floor because it's a one bed apartment and I don't like sleeping with a wild sleeping toddler, he's about to be four and he's NOT potty trained, and simply because I have no say so when the child is doing wrong... Non-judgmental comments just opinions and advice please...

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momma_beffers

momma_beffers

Мама сына-младенца

I resent a lot of "innocent" kids! you talk to your bf about it calmly?

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hottamalee

Nay

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4 & not potty trained ! 😳😕 that's not ok! & you're pregnant ! I wouldn't dare think about sleeping on the floor!! Oh no, your bf needs to be the one on the couch or floor if anything. Even the kid can sleep on the couch, he's but so big! Oh no girl , definitely talk to him about how you feel.

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del_1533249319_sunflowerfields

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I feel you, firstly it's crazy he's not potty trained, his parents should try better with him. Secondly, instead of you being out of the bed, this little boy should have his own blow up bed next to the bed until you guys get a bigger place.

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lilfree16

Lily Freeman

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on the floor.. nope.. girl.. talk to him about that.. i agree , the baby could sleep on a blow up bed or the pull out couch or your bf can with his son..he needs to be potty trained asap i know hes taking grown man shits has to be alot

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nati86

Natalie

Мама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет)

yea your wrong for resenting a child. you should be resenting your bf. no, the child should not be sleeping on the floor or on the couch neither should you tell your bf to move yall if their isn't enough room. tell your bf to buy him pull ups for the night time or potty train him since your going to be step mom.

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lmc_simsmommy

JO

Мама дочки (8 лет)

Dad cant but him a toddler bed?.. No reason to resent the kid if dad cant do right by him..

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_miraclemay

Precious

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By all means I'm not saying I hate or dislike an innocent child just don't like what's going on in my own home. @nati86 @lmc_simsmommy

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_miraclemay

Precious

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Girl no because every time I say something to him he gets mad smh @momma_beffers

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_miraclemay

Precious

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Yes that's what I said and the baby mama is the primary care giver and she hasn't even made a point to get him familiar with getting potty trained... Smh but yes my bf "tried" making him a little bed but he says he's not comfortable so ever since then he sleeps in the bed which makes me crowded and uncomfortable so I sleep in the living room 😔😑 but yes there will be a discussion when he takes him back home @hottamalee

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_miraclemay

Precious

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Yeah it's the baby mamas main responsibility especially when the son lives with her smh.. And yeah he should have a blow up bed or a twin mattress until we get our bigger place. @peaceinfall

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_miraclemay

Precious

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Lol he is taking grown man shits! That shit stinks! Smell up the whole damn house smh i can't deal.. @lilfree16

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39surp

liz

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Your bf is the one who should be on the couch that way you are comfortable and so is the child. When he discovers how uncomfortable the couch or floor is maybe he will at least get a crib mattress and sleeping bag for his child until further accommodations can be made

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_miraclemay

Precious

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That would work only if the toddler wasn't a wild sleeper. I'm afraid he will kick me in my stomach and I would want to be comfortable as well. @39surp

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39surp

liz

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

That's true. A crib mattress isn't very expensive and it's cheaper than a blow up mattress. I hope your bf will consider your comfort ❤️

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_miraclemay

Precious

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Man I really hope so too or I'll be staying over my moms til he drop him off back to his moms @39surp

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del_1533249319_sunflowerfields

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Get him a tiny toddler bed in the room, they are small and affordable until you both get a bigger place, this is not okay you're pregnant

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