honestly... I don't even feel like I'm in a relationship anymore 😢 lately we barely talk. like we…
honestly... I don't even feel like I'm in a relationship anymore 😢 lately we barely talk. like we used to talk non stop and now... he texts me when it's convenient for him. I don't even feel like I have a boyfriend anymore if that makes sense...
I just want attention and his excuse is "I've been busy" on my days off I'll stay up just to talk to him and he doesn't message me back or call me.
am I just too needy?
and lately every time I refer to our son as 'my baby' or 'my giant' he has to correct me and he said it upset him when I do that.. yet I've never once corrected him when he says 'my baby' or 'my son' because I know its our baby and just because we say 'my baby' doesn't mean we mean its not the others baby too. I told him how it upset me that he always corrects me and he goes "well it pisses me off when you just say "my baby" yet he does it just as much as I do!!
ugh I just want to sleep until Aiden is born :(
missing77user·
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when did you notice these changes? were you guys okay before you got pregnant? did the relationship change as the pregnancy progressed?
Jasmine·
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@mypregnancy_journey, we were completely fine before I found out I was pregnant. we had only had a few disagreements. the past few weeks is when everything has started changing. like last night I stayed up until 10 when he got off he was up until 1am and never sent me a message at all I just am beginning to distant myself because I don't feel like his anymore. last weekend I poured my heart out to him over text saying how much I appreciate him and all that love stuff and he didn't even respond. it's getting worse the further along I get I hate it I'm literally craving a man's attention and I'm not one to cheat. I just want to be loved and cuddled and appreciated. and I've even told him this and hes been steady blaming work.. but a few days ago he slipped up and goes "god I wish work was busy" so I don't even know :(
missing77user·
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I went through the same thing with my boyfriend. as my pregnancy progressed things were getting worse. to me honestly I think he's jealous that more of my attention is towards our son than him. he claims he's not but I know it's part of the reason. the way that he was acting towards me though was horrible and the other night we had a conversation basically telling him that he was going to lose his family and that's when we really got into the conversation and started to talk about all of our problems. I'm not saying use your child against him because I don't agree with that but eventually everyone gets fed up at one point.
Jasmine·
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@mypregnancy_journey, like I understand he works long hours... but what changed?! no matter how long of a day we'd talk quiet a bit. always called me on breaks. I'm just so lost. and when he comes here I'm just always so mad at him so I don't want to love and cuddle on him
missing77user·
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maybe that's why he's acting like that too? coming home from work to you being mad and if he wants to show you any type of love and you push him away from doing that he eventually backed off of you. regardless that's not right because you are pregnant and you do need him right now too. there's a lot you both need to sit down and talk about. you both are frustrated with each other.
Jasmine·
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@mypregnancy_journey, he doesn't come home to me. and I've explained why I'm upset and he gets up and leaves my house
Jasmine·
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@mypregnancy_journey, and when he gets off he'll always go to the bar and "forget" to text me back and then I see other females posting photos with him its so frustrating
missing77user·
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yeah that right there isn't okay at all. getting mad then going to a bar supposedly forgetting to text you back but has more than enough time to take pictures with other females honestly I wouldn't even let him back in the house. you want to act like a dog you're going to get put out like a dog too.