@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Baby clothes Where has everyone been buying baby clothes? I think the majority of his clothes I've bought have been from Carter's but I'm thinking I want him to have some more original stuff too that everyone else won't have lol. I need more ideas. I've started looking at Old Navy and H&M. I need to find more cute zip up sleepers too! I honestly didn't like too many that Carter's had.
My husband is telling my son that he's losing all of his toys and pretty much everything else that he gets for Christmas and that he is the only one that gets to say when he is ”good enough” to get them back one by one. He told my son that I don't get a say at all for it. We were to get stocking stuffers and presents for my son and our son a few days ago and it's ALL TOYS which I didn't get much say in for either of them either. Before anyone starts attacking me for saying MY SON and OUR SON in thing it for a reason. I have made multiple posts about the problems I have been having lately. I already know what I need to do about it. I just don't have the money for it. We have four christmas’s this year and he's saying my son won't see anything from any of them. I haven't told him that my parents are getting them something too. I've been in the bathroom for less than 5 minutes and he came in asking if I was okay because ”ive been in here for a while” 🙄 I made an excuse.
Vent: am I overreacting? My husband and I live in a small 2 bed 1.5 bath townhouse with our mother-in-law, our 6 month old son, and our chihuahua. My MIL watches the baby while we are at work. My brother-in-law is going on vacation for a week and wants my MIL to watch his dog while she watches our son and our dog. So he wants to bring his big boxer dog to stay at our house all week while he’s gone. This dog is an inside dog and I don’t want it at our house. I don’t want my MIL having to worry about two dogs while watching our baby. We don’t have a backyard we have a small patio area that the chihuahua doesn’t even like to go to the bathroom but has been learning to. Also, I’m going to be working over 2 hours away from home next week and don’t want to stress. I’ve been already. I told my husband I don’t think it’s a good idea but we keep arguing about it. I don’t want to jeopardize my son’s safety or have him being ignored because she’s taking care of a dog! Am I wrong? :(
cats and babies My so and I haven't been able to have cats for years. Last year we moved into our own house. So says we can have a cat now.
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I have talked to him but he always says imagine how I feel I lost my son....I do understand but I was a huge part of his life too. we were a family together.
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