Okay Momma's what would you do in this situation? When I got pregnant my older brother (who's in the…
Okay Momma's what would you do in this situation?
When I got pregnant my older brother (who's in the army stationed in Germany at this time) yelled at me to get an abortion and when I said no he talked a bunch of crap about me and my hubby (who he's never met and knows nothing about) and he's been such a jerk and said he hates us and doesn't want us in his life. I won't forgive him or even speak to him without at least an apology to me and hubby. Well he's home now and my mom keeps yelling at me to stop overreacting and being ridiculous and stuff. I don't know what to do. he's been so mean and said some really hurtful, unforgivable things. And he REFUSES to apologize
missing98user·
Мама сына-младенца
Forgive him and tell him you need an apology. Was your husband there when he said that?
Kristina·
Мама дочки-младенца
I've asked for an apology and he refuses to give me one. he says he's not sorry for what he said and that I should have aborted my daughter. and it was over the phone when he said it since he was stationed so far away in Germany @junesmommy15
Blanca·
Мама сына-младенца
@kristinamarie_1996, he definitely needs to apologize to you those are hurtful things. There's nothing that will make what he said okay and if he thinks he did nothing wrong then you don't need him in your life. You just need your baby and hubby no one else.
missing98user·
Мама сына-младенца
I will forgive him for my own sanity but he wouldn't be around my child. Whenever he comes around I would excuse myself.
Krystin·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Not the same situation but my brother decided to threaten me with CPS when he blew a situation out of proportion and didn't apologize after I apologized to him so I cut his ass outta my life for good this time sometimes you just gotta cut ties with ppl that bring you down
Kristina·
Мама дочки-младенца
its so hard to just cut him out because my family is so close and he lives with my parents at the moment so if I go over there he will be there. I miss having an older brother in my life but I can't forgive what he said and my mom doesn't understand that either @wyatts_mommy_0106 @blanca_boo
Alyce Curtin·
В ожидании первенца
You have no reason to apologize. He should not have said what he said and it was wrong of him. I'm sorry your mom doesn't understand either.
Brianna Relyea·
Мама сына-младенца
If he is that childish he should not be in the army
Krystin·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yeah I've never been close to my family I'm the black sheep so its easy for me to cut ties with them. but have your mom.look at it from your.point of view I'm sure she wouldn't like it if that was said to her if she was you. you can play nice or just go over there and ignore him until he realizes he hurt you with what he said he might eventually come around
Blanca·
Мама сына-младенца
@kristinamarie_1996, I wouldn't forgive him either there's somethings you don't say and he said them. He should have been happy for you instead of saying those awful things. You definitely don't need that around you making it seem like you're overreacting when you're not. Your mom should be on your side about this because he's clearly in the wrong. I would say just go their for your mom and don't put up with what he says.
Kimberly ·
When my husband told my mum I had to deliver at 29 weeks my mum asked him if they could just give me an abortion instead... I cut that c**t out of my life.