Sorry really long rant just needed to get this off my chest it's driving me crazy.
Am I over reacting? My husband got his own store and has a new assistant manager and it seems...

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Sorry really long rant just needed to get this off my chest it's driving me crazy. 
Am I over reacting? My husband got his own store and has a new assistant manager and it seems like she text him all the time used to be work related but now she is complaining about her current boyfriend to him. He said he talks to both assistant managers but he comes home with sharpie marks on his from playing at work. I'm worried they may get stronger feelings for each other if she hasn't all ready. He told me to stop being jealous and that she is just a friend and co-worker that he is just an open ear. That being jealous never works out well and that he loves only me and our baby. I don't know if it is the pregnant emotions or if I should really be worried or not. I have no friends here or other women to talk too. 
He says it is because we live in such a small town and not many people to talk to. I go eat lunch with him all the time but will be out of town soon to have our baby.

None · Answer

@harmony250,  Anytime! If you ever want to talk and just need a listening ear, feel free to message me. :)

Harmony · Answer

Thank you @lyricsmommy15  thought seems like a good idea and yes I'm going to talk to him again

None · Answer

I agree with all these ladies. Even if he has pure motives that doesn't mean she does. And he needs to respect you and the relationship you share to understand your feelings and not give you a reason to feel uncomfortable. You and the baby need to be his top priority. I would talk to him about your feelings again, see how he would feel if the situation was reversed. My husband and I try to have a policy where we both agree on the relationships with the opposite sex. If either feels uncomfortable with the situation, we talk it through and come to an agreement that the other is okay with. To be honest, before that policy we had a lot of fights and disagreements but since then we really don't have any problems about it. Good luck! :)

Harmony · Answer

Thanks everyone I will talk to him again about the issue

lilchicken · Answer

It's not just her fault for talking to your husband if he is an open ear for her to talk to. I Don think you're crazy, it would upset me too. I agree that since he loves you he should respect your feelings enough to keep things professional if for no other reason than it makes you uncomfortable.

Alex Liberty · Answer

I've been put thru some of them feelings while prego. makes your head spin like crazy. your not overreacting. no girl should be complaining to a guy about her guy problems unless she wants trouble. common sense. follow your gut

jazz · Answer

sorry I'm giving you my perspective and I'm not even pregnant anymore. so here it goes. it doesn't matter if you getting jealous u have every right to be. and if he loves and respects you he wouldn't be putting u in that situation to make you feel that way period. work should be strictly business and tbh she shouldn't have a personal number he should have a business line strictly for that and when work hours are no longer in session this girl needs to know her place. and just let him know that.

Melissa · Answer

if you're uncomfortable with their relationship (and you will have to sit down and think about your feelings and if they're justified) then he should have enough respect for YOUR relationship not to do things that really make you unhappy. jealousy happens, sometimes we just need to get over it, and other times it is totally justified, you need to decide which and explain it all to him.

liz · Answer

Not good! She need to take her personal business back out the door! It could hurt him in the long run also confiding in him.  She could later on say he came on to her if she could actually get the impression he has feelings for her because he was willing to listen.  Oh lord be careful of girls like that, that have problems with their own bf because they can be more likely to cling on to the first man that seems sensitive enough to listen and care🙅🙅🙅😬😬

Harmony · Answer

I only get the weird vibes from her. I will for sure have to talk to her next I go to town

Marissa · Answer

personally I would tell him she doesn't need to text him about her personal life and keep it strictly business and if he doesn't like it then approach her respectfully and tell her the samething your husband is not her friend or her therapist.  or see how they act around each other if you have weird vibes then you know

Nicole · Answer

Their relationship should be strictly professional. If she need a friend she need to find someone that she dont work with.

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