So my husband doesn't want to have sex with me. he said he is scared too. I want to have sex should I just deal with it…

lol drinking can be a wonderful thing sometimes. he just needs to relax!

@fancy.shattuck I'm gonna wait until the weekend and talk with him and see what happens. we are having people over and he will be drinking so maybe I'll get lucky.

its just the semen that softens the cervix so tell him to pull out or wear a condom. I definitely couldn't wait the 6 weeks & it was hard for hubby too!

@michelledesfosses the problem is he wants the baby in there as long as possible. @fancy.shattuck I'm going to have a very hard time waiting 6 weeks.

@kay628, yeah mine was to until we had sex at 20 weeks and had bleeding and contractions, then no matter what we couldn't anymore lol, I got scared after that, some men are just that way, more sensitive about it, I know mine was

Ask him to do a little reading up on it & maybe he will change his mind. If you're anything like me I couldn't wait the 6 weeks after birth. I gave in at 4 & thought I was gonna go crazy before that.

@xoxo512070 I've told him there is a lot of protection he is a very stubborn guy at times

@fancy.shattuck

I only have 3 weeks and my boyfriend and i have sex almost every day. Plus semen helps thin your cervix so labor is easier on your body

up until about a week ago he was more interested

Mine was the same way, men have feelings to, just talk to him and show him how much protection is around the baby and that their is nothing to worry about, we weren't allowed to have sex after 20 weeks because every time I would bleed

Why is he scared? My husband seemed to be more sexually interested in me when I was pregnant. Tell him to man up & take care of his woman! :)

@michelledesfosses

all his work buddies told him that it can make me go into labor so now he is scared because we only have 4 weeks left

Its his child in you, tell him to man up and be a man