It happens so often. from first hand experience it is hard to be a single mother. Specially in the beginning. But with love and dedication it will all be worth it. As my friend said single mothers are lucky they don't have to fight with their partner about the decisions you take for your baby. Also all of his love will be for you. You will be one of the only people he/she smiles for.
same situation here...he actually text me today asking if I loved him...went through this whole long drawn out convo about everything and then basically said "oh well I was just checking but I still don't want to be with you and this isn't what I want anymore and I didn't figure it out until after you got pregnant".....I'm due in Feb and you are just now telling me this?!?! Ugh!
I'm so sorry. I pray that he gets his shit together and reconsider walking out on his family. I know it's easier said than done but stay strong your blessing is coming.
My daughter's biological father didn't want to be with me. When I moved on he got all pissy because my daughter calls my boyfriend daddy... I look at it like this if he really loves you and that baby he will be back, he might have just gotten scared or something