So I been with my man going on two years. I wanna put my last name on Zoey's name. My man just got out of jail and I heard she gets more stuff with my last name well he just told me if I put her last name as mine he is done with me and hung up on me!! What yall opinion on this :'(( I don't want them taking zoey from me :''((
Well if he wants you to put his last name then tell him to pay for all the stuff you need. (If you can't get wic because of the last name).
just dont let him take her and dont let him see her unless you are around thats the only way to oeotect your daughter but that doesnt have anything to do with her last name.
they wont take her away from you because she has his last name....
he said he would it hurts. I want her to have my last name because I don't want them taking her down where he staying at around drugs and all :'(( I'm trying to stay strong but this hurts he's my best friend and the love of my life I just want best for our daughter
none of that matters when it comes to the babies last name. but you do what you think is best for your daughter. if you want to give her your last name then do it. tell him you can always change it too his layer or whatever. he shouldnt leave you just cause you want to out your last name.
my son had both of our last names. & I still got wic an stuff. my friends daughter has her boyfriends last name an she gets wic an medical an everything else. @dewaynegirls1231 I really don't think it matters what the babies last name is
@dewaynegirls1231, what do you mean you heard shell get more if she has your last name?
If he leaves because you used your last name then I'm sorry to say but that just shows he doesn't care about you or your daughter he should want what's best for his daughter as well you can always change her last name in the future stay strong momma!
hIs name is all he has. I think that would upset my husband too...maybe use both of your last names and drop his if the time comes?
I feel like it shouldn't matter u can have the last name and tell him he can do her middle name...thats no reason to leave someone
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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You can always change her last name to his in the future . Right now wic and Medicaid and tanif are important since your practically the only financial person . He can earn his right back when he gets back on his feet . It's not to be mean but what's best financially for the baby