ugh I over did it cleaning today trying to make the house look better for my husband and now I am in…
ugh I over did it cleaning today trying to make the house look better for my husband and now I am in pain and it hurts to move and idk of I'm going to make it into work tmm again I just wish I could quit already I can't do this pain and I can't even stand very long with out having pain every where I have to sit down for breaks ugh this sucks!! idk what to do I feel bad cause I feel like I'm letting my husband down
Tamara·
I think I did the same , took a hot shower and laying in bed
maria·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
I'm hurting just laying here
samantha·
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I have this same problem if I do too much. idk how far along you are but listen to your body at all times. if you physically don't feel well enough to work then talk that over with your health care provider and your husband. I was off at about 3 months because I got horribly sick and had to be on IV fluids at my house and a medicine pump... then a few months later j tried to work again and I was in too much pain at the end of the day. I feel like I am letting my husband and unborn babies down but at the same time I know that is what is best for the girls. don't be too hard on yourself. when I felt pain from over doing it I would prop my feet up and use a heating pad... it usually helped a lot
maria·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
I'm 18 weeks these just started I told my husband I'd go back to work after the baby came but I can't do it right now it hurts to bad like I can't sleep or anything I've got to wrk in morning but idk if I can I hurt to damn much and I've talk to my doctor and she's like oh ur fine its just where ur pregnant and I want u to keep working and all that I'm like really they don't even want me on a register cause I'm all the time feeling dizzy and now I'm always in pain from morning sickness and all that and she's like ur just pregnant it happens idk I've talked to my husband and he more then likely I can quit but we have to talk about it tmm when he comes home cause he's on the Rd alot idk I'm trying but I feel like I'm letting him down but I can't help it I'd rather be safe then sorry cause he's had to miscarriages before and I just want to make sure this one remains safe idk I just feel like a let down to him cause I can't work with out being in pain I can't even stand up very long with out having to sit down
samantha·
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I am the same way... other than meeting with the pediatrician today (Tuesday) I haven't been out of the house since Saturday and I lay in bed all day. You are not a let down. if you are not happy with your Dr then find another one that will take what you are saying more seriously. if you have to work see if they will knock you down to part time. if that isn't an option then do what you have to do for you and the baby. financially it may be hard but it will all be worked out and fine. listen to your body, you know you best. prayers for you momma!
maria·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
I am part time I just work long hours and I can't cut my availability down or I won't get any hours and yea ik I love my Dr I has her with my other two kids and I did not have a problem this time around its like she is always in a hurry my Lil sister gose to her and she gets better advice then I do I'm like like what the hell I've been going to u for four years and ur just now being suckie I mean I don't want to change I want my kids to be born in the same place and my husband wants me to change I just feel comfortable with her but he'll my husband hasn't even met her yet cause everytime I go I've either seen the nurse practicer or the other Dr I mean I'm fine with the other Dr he delivered my first daughter due to my Dr getting sick the day before she induced me. Idk I just wish she would listen to what I'm saying rather then me feeling rushed. Idk I'm just in so much pain it hurts to sleep or even roll over I really don't want to go anywhere else cause I've heard horror stories about other places and maybe I'm just being paranoid..Idk I think when I go in for my ultrasound in a week I'll ask the nurse practicer what she thinks since they changed my days and I went from seeing my Dr to see in her cause my Dr leaves early the day I have an ultrasound