I'm so small. Is it selfish of me to not want to push out an 8 or 9 pound baby? 😭😭😭😭

You know for a fact your baby will be that big? Lol you can just get a C-section...

no! I just don't want him to be that big :( lol @muva.mermaid

Lol he may not be. My friend delivered on time and her son was only 7 lbs

I hope my baby's measurements are way off, because her growth is exxgerated!

& so is the weight I've gained :(

You may be small but your cervix is not. Unless your doctor told you so, you can push out a baby that big. But I know no one wants that lol.

My moms small and my brother was 11 lbs and she did fine. I went full term with both of mine and they were under 8. There is no way to tell exactly.

did she tear? :( @swtlilangl

No...as long as you do your kegels and perineal massage it helps also not getting the epidural because then you can feel the baby and stop when necessary so you don't tear.

😣😣@swtlilangl how do I do kegals? Is that tightening the muscle down there and then letting go?

Yes that's all it is I just do them all day long when I'm sitting.

thank you. And The one I can stop pee with right? lol @swtlilangl

Yes lol. You're welcome.