so I need opinions my biological biological dad wasn't around much when I was a kid him and my mom…
so I need opinions my biological biological dad wasn't around much when I was a kid him and my mom got divorced when I was like 2 then my mom has full custody of me and my brother but I didn't meet him til I was like 11 or 12 but now that I am an adult he has been around more but lives in cali I just don't how I feel about him being around my daughter yet because I don't him to do her like he did to me and my brother what are yalls thoughts?
missing225user·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
Don't base the future on the past. I'm an adoptee and I know the relief I felt when I was able to put names with faces and have my biological family around. There's no perfect--people are gonna disappoint you at times. But to deny your baby his grandparents when you may not have the full story wouldn't be good, in my opinion. I was told my parents didn't want me BUT when I got the facts, it turns out they were only 14 and 15 when I was born and had NO choice. Just have an open dialogue and see what your heart says. I know my parents are different than they were in 1984. 2015 has revealed two loving, wonderful people and I'm glad I found them.
shay475·
В ожидании первенца
yes true but I think I will let be there and just see how it goes only time will tell