Bit of a long nighttime rant but I am sick of people saying 'you're only pregnant'. Every pregnancy…

Bit of a long nighttime rant but I am sick of people saying 'you're only pregnant'. Every pregnancy is different. Some people find it easier than others, carry on having great social lives and work well into their third trimester. Some don't. Personally these past 8 months have been the worst of my life and I don't think anything can top it. I wouldn't do it again if someone paid me. I was made homeless at 12 weeks and lived in a dirty b&b with barely any money due to having to resign from work because of severe sickness and fatigue. I finally got a flat at 24 weeks and then my partner left me. Until he came back I literally sat in my flat all day every day other than going to the shop. I haven't seen my 'friends' since before I fell pregnant. I see my parents once every few weeks and the rest of my family aren't interested. It's driven me insane and I fear I may have AND because of it. I have had frequent breakdowns where I just don't want to do it anymore and feel like no one cares. I've never felt so alone. I struggled with severe sickness at the beginning, now I have bad SPD and am on crutches, sciatica which makes it near impossible to sleep, anaemia, insomnia and now I may have the beginning of pre e which is terrifying because both I and my mother almost died when she had it. It has not been easy at all. I am not 'only pregnant'. I am very lonely, isolated, sick and have been constantly anxious due to past miscarriages. I know that I am very lucky to have made it this far in my pregnancy and will have an amazing daughter at the end of it who I love but that doesn't mean it isn't hard. So don't say that to anyone please, whether you've been pregnant or not and especially not if you're a man. You don't know what someone is going through😔😔